onmyownagain

Hi onmyownagain,

 

Can you please tell me more about the above quote? I actually had the same response from my ex. I'd like to know how it feels when compromising yourself in a relationship with someone you truly care for.

When I say compromise, I mean doing things she wanted rather than what I wanted.

Sharing some of her friends even when I didn't like them.

Putting up with the rubbish soaps every night because that is what she liked.

Even had the chance to move to the US twice over the years but she wouldn't move away from her family, even for a year.

Excusing little white lies even though I can't stand lies.

Loads of other things like that, all adds up over the years.

Hi Addicus,

It think it is too late to try now, we aren't even talking now and really do think this is for the best. Not prepared to put my daughter through it all again.

Thanks John,

As far as I am concerned it is over for good. I am not using the rose tinted glasses this time, looking at how it really was. Okay, we did have nice times over the years but really think I could be happier with someone else.

I had to compromise myself so much over the years and will never do that again.

We split again on the earlier this month, wish I had never gone back. Don't think it is ever worth it.

Well done Danny, glad things are working out for you.

I always think, making love in the dark allows your other half to think of someone else instead of you, how inscure am I.

As a guy, I like to look at images of women like most men but my wife doesn't have a problem with this. We do sometimes watch porn together but I think I would have a problem with her looking at it alone with her vibrator, even though I myself do this on occasion.

I wouldn't stop her because that would be controlling and she is happy for me to do it when I am alone.

Looking at this sort of thing may not be wrong but if it is an issue in your relationship then it certainly needs to be addressed. Forget what others say, if you don't like it you have the right to react as you want.

Sorry if I offended you, that was not my intention. You are right, I did misinterpret what you meant.

But you let your job come before your love life. So you have a good career and loads of money, but no family to enjoy it. My wife and I split for 3 months last year and this has taught me there is nothing more important than your family. I have a very good job but if it stood in the way of my family I would walk away from it today.

Hi,

I have a career and a family, you have to find a balance, there is more to life than just working.

I can't remember how long it look my wife and I to fall in love but had a good idea after a few months of dating. I think the most important advice for a long marriage is not to take the other for granted and don't think that because you have tied the knot, they are there forever. Work at it everyday.

I think it depends what you talk about. I am happily married but flirt like mad with the woman at work and text people flirty things. Do this enough times and they start to believe you!! Had to appologise a couple of times recently for giving the wrong impression, one girl got very upset when I told her I wasn't interested.

Learnt my lesson now

If you spend more than $1000 make sure she knows it is on loan until the day you die. If you divorce then it is yours again.

Wow, that sounds nice. I want to sleep with you now and I am a man!! Don't tell the wife

I think some women like to feel filled, but it is only a feeling, it shouldn't really stop her getting pleasure, but I think for them width comes into it more anyway.

I am average size and haven't had any complaints, if you want to go in deep, change your positions.

Masturbate like crazy, every chance you get and really squeeze hard when doing it, this will make if harder to come when inside her.

I have nearly always dated younger woman than me, my wife is 6 years younger than me.

Why do we date woman younger than us, because we can.

Bricklayers can't be better lovers, their hands are rough and covered in cement, Probably too dumb to learn to be good as well

I can't imagine not having my foreskin. Tell me, if you are cut and fancy a quick self service session, what do you do if you have no lube? No problem for me as I have it built in Plus, as the end is protected in day to day life it is probably more sensitive which means more pleasure, sounds good to me.

I think when you get married you should remember that divorce is a very real prospect. I know when I got married and hit hard times you expect to be able to solve everything and can get away with murder because you are hitched, BIG MISTAKE.

I think you need to strike a balance between being there for the other person and wrapping your whole life around them and smothering them.

Other than that, try to be happy and enjoy it!

Dental dams!!! Think I would skip oral in that case!

Jinx,

 

You and your boyfriend are virgins but you still need to practice safe sex.I wouldn't take any risk PERIOD.How about buying flavor condoms and dental dams.They have chocolate,grape,strawberry,banana,cherry flavors.

I'm a virgin myself and i puchase some favor condoms

This is really funny. If a woman was here saying her man can't get her off, she would be told he needs to improve his technique, but reverse the roles and it is his fault. Maybe she just needs to learn how to do it better

My wife and I,after nine years of marriage, split for three months (she ended it). Back home now for eight months (she asked for me to return). Successful? Ask me in ten years

One thing, the one who does the asking back seems to hand all the power to the other, which isn't something I would have expected when out there on my own again.

HI,

I know what you are going through, my wife and I split for a while and we have a daughter but she is nine and has a cell phone, so she texted me and I rang her on that.

I didn't want to talk to my wife either. Can you get someone to phone on your behalf and then they can ask for your daughter, they can put you on once she speaks.

I found having no contact at all with my wife helped me a lot, in fact I only had to see her twice in three months we were apart and by then she was being friendly again because she wanted me back.

By then, I was feeling better anyway so it wasn't so bad.

I am just happy she wants to make love to me after all the years we have been together. Just look at how many men on here are moaning because their partner no longer wants to make love.

I think woman can be put off sex easily, so why make it a chore for them by forcing them to things they dislike.

Men are always up for it because we are horny devils who need little encoragement at all

I don't think my wife would mind me not going down on her, she prefers to orgasm with me inside, I only go down when she is struggling to cum usually.