Just reconciled with my ex after a 4 month seperation - we've been together 3 1/2 years but have never lived together. Won't go into detail as to why we parted only to say there were faults on both sides. We talked yesterday and decided that we would give it another go as the feelings between us are as strong as they ever were.
The g/f, however, says she still needs time to adjust and asked me not to 'rush her.' We kiss and hug and we're in constant contact throughout the day - she's attending a function with me at the weekend. I tell her I love her whenever i can but so far those words have not been returned to my face.
I have no doubts that given time our relationship will return to its former glory, but my dilemma is: how do I give her time and not rush her and at the same time show her that she is the most important person in my life?
