Ineed911

xtrips, What you have described is very similar to the life I also live. I have read through the replies, all from women, and I have a very different point of view. The average woman is going to say that YOU are not initiating sex or intimacy with your wife, and that is why you are not receiving it from her. I have read the books and talked to professionals, however I believe that my wife has intimacy issues that are beyond my control. Maybe you are in a similar situation. I am not sure what I am trying to tell you, aside from "it's not your fault!" I guess I am also trying to say that you are not alone in the way that you feel. If you do figure it all out, please let me know - I would love to learn the recipe myself. -b