I really thank you all for your answers. I do feel that I have to give a little more details about the problem in order to get answers more focused.
The thing is I am the one that have tried many times and is still proposing massages and kisses and more. The problem is that my wife is not into tenderness, giving, feminity etc....
I terribly lack of kisses and huggs and caresses...
My wife is more into sport, work, internet, soduko and of course raising our child than arousing her husband, surprising him with a dinner table of even a new dress...
Are these excuses or are they legitimate needs I have?