calibabe007

Sorry if I was unclear, but this has nothing to do witha new guy, i wrote him a letter, and once I give it to him, its over for good. But I am so scared to loose him... Sorry for the missunderstanding!

Why is it that when you are going through the pain of a break up and that you want so badly to move on and let go, but when the oppertunity finally comes, you are so scared to death to move on without the other? I am going through this, I finally can move on, but now I am so scared. I dont wanna loose him, he means oh so Much!

Calibabe007

No, its just one of thoseguy things, no need to worry!

Calibabe007

Hello, well I dont know if any of you have read about me and my story. I was with Nic for 11 months. He was everything to me, basicaly my life, my love, my passion. Well he left me after 11 months, because he need space and thought we should take a break. After that I screwed everything up. I caled constantly, begged and pleaded to get back with him. Well its been 6 months now, and I saw him today. Its like I wanna cry, because it hurts so bad, but crying doesnt seem to fit what I'm feeling. He couldnt look me in the eyes today, partly becuase he blew me off today, and because i think he cares about how much he hurt me, but doesnt wanna show it. He was my everything, my reason for living at one point, and I know God must have someone better for me, It just hurts so bad. He cared to, he really did, how can he just throw that away. How can he look at me and have no feeligns? how do i stop hurting. I have tried everything, getting out, making new friends, getting new hobbies, dating new guys, it just doesnt help. Its like a piece of me is gone and all those things are like band-aids, they cover it up on the outside, but still I have a gashing wound. Please Help Me!!!

I happen to dissagree!! Completely. Love is a feeling, feelings are based upon emotions and circumstances. Now if everyone decided or based there lives around circumstances, where would life be now. You can learn to love soemone, learn how to truly care about them. Over time love fades, is restored, ... Its like a cycle, for the sake of your kids. Stay with him, Give it time, take marrage counsaling, Dont give up!

?Best of luck

Lea

I know exactly how you feel. That was really good, and i could relate, but you know, life has tis ups and downs. But when you really find God you come ot realize that in your bad times God bring you up and in your good times he is here holding you up. Dont let life be based on circunstances, or else you will always end up in failurer.

Good luck

Lea

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Thats great, well depressing, but i can relate!

The best relationships I have ever had are with close friends. They know you like no one else, and you know they love you and arntt using you. Just a thought!

hows life going? Tell me more about yoruself? Have you done anything fun this summer?Wanna hang out sometime? Etc

Hard to say, but the only thing I can say, is when in doubt wait it out. i know tahts overused, but give it time, see where life takes you. Be spontaniouse!

Same thing happened to me, yet its been six months since the break-up. Its like you dont wanna date him, but you see him happy with another girl, and wishe he wasnt happy without you. I know how you feel!

Email me if you want

Melea

Women ofter take break-ups harder then men. they are more attacted, and more emotional!

They had been together for many a year,

Now, all she could feel was fear.

She gave all that she could give,

It just wasn't the way she wanted to live.

He left without a backward glance,

Not even giving their love a chance.

She often wonders what she could have done,

To keep him from going on the run.

Now she is living all alone,

With nothing to call her own.

She can barely make herself eat,

Wondering if her life will ever again be complete.

This woman is now moving along,

Building her courage, and becoming strong.

Time will heel her broken pride,

Toward the sunset her heart will glide.

Hi, Im lea and I have posted alot about my ex bf and past relationship with him. Well to be quick he broke my heart. Well today, six months later, he had the nerve to im me telling me about his new gf. Well although it hurts like hell, I just need to hear from someone that they know what I feel. Like im not alone in this struggle that seems to have no end. That im not the only one hurting.

Lea

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Email me too!

"All u have to do is get over it" Ha, thats the stupidess thing ever. You just cant"All u have to do is get over it" Life doesnt work like that, people dont work like that, feelings dotn work like taht, sorry to say!

I know, myself being a girl, going through the same thing as you. Life will go on, and all we can do is hope and pray there si someone better out there for us. Its hard to imahine how someone we love so much doesnt care to evenwrite or call. shows you the quality of people today in this world. Wish you the best of luck

Lea

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Dot lie!!! Tell her the truth if she askes... Honesty is the key!

I know how you feel, I wish i didnt, but I do. I dated this guy for 11 months, and still cant get over him. He too has a new gf, and I still think about him everyday, and I have for the last 6+ months. Looking and looking for th right guy wont bring you any closer to him. I truly believe that there is someone out there for you and for me. maybe its our ex's, and either us of them have to change beofre were right for each other, or maybe god has someone better fit for us. Let life runs its course.. and as for calling him, I did for a while, and I think it pushed him more away from me, so now i dont call, and every so often he will call and it is so much more special that way. Never forget that love is love, but when you find mutrual love, you will be happy. Email me, I would love to hear from you email removed.

Love

Lea

Hello, well some of you have read my posts on nic, my ex of 11 onths who broke up with me cause he wanted to be a normal tennager guy that had freedoms... Well just an update, i saw him today, and asked him to go outside and talk, he trying to look cool in front of his friends looked over and kissed a "hot girl" to piss me off. Well I just left crying, and my good guy friend, brant, came after me and hugged me and held me while i was crying. I found out alot about his character tonight, and It hurts me so much. I talked to my bff and she said i deserved better and to just move on. How can I do that? I dont think I'm strong enough, and I care so much.. Please help me, this is ruining my life!!!

I agree!

I dunno what shhe meant by it but dont smoother her, give her space, while still being involoved in her life!!!

Hi, well my story is about the same as you, but he went for my good friend. Nic(my ex) is the most amazing guy, and if he doesnt wanna be with me i respect that, but byhim knowing that you would take him back no matter what he did is one of the worst things you could do. Take it from me, leave this guy alone!! I got screwed over from my ex cause i would take him back in a second!!! And i knwo everyone sayes hes not like taht.. obviously he is if he said taht

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Lea

Hello, I am 15 years old, Im from Cali, and I need some help. Me and my boyfriend of 11 moths broke up about 3 months ago, he no longer loves me and doesnt care about me any more. He is a total jerk and blows me off constantly. I love him with all my heart, but thats not the reason I'm writing. ever since then, my perfect life has been crashing down. My grades have slipped, I am no longer happy, I cant do the things I used to love. All the gusy I have met have been total jerks, and I am extremly lonely. I feel so hurt that he could move onw ith out me, and I am the one that is suffering. Please help me!!

Please,Calibabe007

Thanx for that great advice... anymore insite?

Hi, maybe you have heard some of my story, but I'll try and make it nice and short. I dated this guy, Nic, for about 11 months. We broke up in Feb. becuase he needed some"time". From there, I screwed everything over, I didnt give him space and pushed him farther. He didnt call or talk to me up until like 2 weeks ago. He called and said he was thinking about me and wanted to know how i was. I am so in love with this guy by the way! We finally went to church together last Sunday and went to dinner afterwards. We ended up hooking up, becuase i thought if he could only get some he would love me. STUPID!He left the next day, and is currently gone with his friend in Vegas! I was just starting to move on when he came back. I dont think he has any intention of ever dating me again, but I still carry the hope that we will. I have been thinking about him alot more, and I cry and am more depressed. And on top of that, a mutural friend imed me and told me to "to get over him, and her loyalties lie to him and she wil do everything in her power to make sure me and him dont get close again" she sayes he doesnt need me and is better off without me. I dont knwo why she would say these things, or even think that. I never did anything wrong, and I care too much to just drop this guy. Please help me, I dont knwo what else to do

Calibabe004

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