Monsoo

Actually my dear it is not just "clothes" problem. It's a problem with mentality and insecurity which doesn't remain limited to clothes. It surfaced in a discussion about clothes by chance for now. It will resurface in something else soon, mark my words. You've just been with him 6 months or less, he has started opening up now. There will be several similar arguments down the road. I'm sorry to sound so negative but the sooner you walk away from him the better. Or you can try your best to make him understand the boundaries, what you'd allow and what you won't. And if he disagrees he can make his decision. Otherwise you'll be sad and heartbroken from time to time like this.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It must be hard. Unfortunately, you don't have an option in this situation. You can't force him to change his decision, just as you can't change your mind to not have kids ever. Sometimes the right choice is the most difficult one. May it be easier for you.