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ai broke up with my now ex boyfriend the start of this year end of last year and we have been in no contact. Stupid me decided to this month make a order and without checking the address it went to his house. Now he has messaged me saying theres been a parcel there for me. I have gotten mad anxiety again and do not know what to do or say. HELPP

how because i care so much but i know this is draining he isnt right for me

I am in something quite similar to this, my boyfriend does not like when i speak or hang out with friends too much even though he pretends that he is fine. i dont have friends that i see i havent in a year or two years but thats just how i am but its the fact he is super judgmental too and wont have me seeing anyone too like this. im also scared to speak to my friends around him as he is super judgy

My boyfriend and I have had rocky roads recently due to him having trust issues, i never cheated on him yet he always holds me accountable for not having his back in previous instances where women have messaged me saying they were speaking and what not whilst i was in a relationship with him. I have reacted badly of course - as any women would and his arguement has always been that i never had his back whilst she was saying all this instead i let her keep talking, he thinks i betrayed him in that sense. Then another instance was with a family member who wanted to meet him yet was being very defensive in doing so and called him names and in this instance he also argued i never had his back. fast forward to now, yes i have had instances in which i have not acted dumb and supported him knowing he was wrong - but was that actually a problem? i do understand now that no matter what i need to discuss with him first before i react because i have reacted before knowing the full story before. however i was hurt. due to this stuff he had started to take things further and started cheating on me seeing other people talking to other women even went onto having sex with them. he was loyal once but it didnt last after i broke “his trust” he wants to end our relationship but he cant at the same time he wants an open relationship hes being ***ty we dont have sex he doesnt want to do things with me anymore im just sad. ontop of this my mum is sick, my sisters in mental health care, my dad suffers from depression he has never once asked me how they are only how i am when i go home because he knows its a lot. he doesnt care about anyone he just cares about his sport and if he cant play its the end of the world and nothing comes before him and his dream. i have tried to end things many times over. he tells me he will never change and has given me the cold shoulder many times how do i detach my feelings from him and end this relationship once and for all?

I have been dealing with lots of hardships in lofe lately and all i want is that peace of mind and tranquility that i once had. i worked so hard on it by meditating constantly but i have fallen out of it how do i fall in love with myself again?!

its true what your saying and its hard because my mother has cancer and i have no one to love me whilst she is like this.

she wants to tell him to marry me and be happy as her last wishes

my mum isnt well either and she wants to see him before she gets worse as she has cancer i dont know what to do

its true i know i feel so stupid for how i feel i havent been able to sleep because of this and he is probably fast asleep right now i have a whole break up text i wrote to send him because there is so much i kept in i want to let out but i want him to see me and feel bad when i leave him instead of breaking up over text

i know he has sadly

its true your right he manipulated me to the point i cant get in touch with my standards, he’s completely destroyed me. i want to get my things from his but i dont want to go at the same time.

thank you so much for your advice, but i keep getting this urge to fight back because i know his career and money wise everything is going to crap and he wants to destroy everything in the process because he feels like a failure i want to stick it out but i know its wrong to at the same time. he says he wants me we havent had sex in a while as i have been bleeding due to miscarriage i have such mixed emotions right now.

he has told me he would only want to be in a a relationship with me and no one else but he wants to be single right now what does that mean?

do i break up with him in person?

the worst part is i love his mum and she is the sweetest person i have no idea how to tell her that i cant be with her son anymore