Justme2

With 419 views now, i hope just 1 other male has felt these feelings and found these posts to be useful. 2 years later, im still in love totally with my wife, and am with her sexually as much now as then. I do still occasionally have the same feelings, however they have waned a bit. Still would like to....... nevermind A gift ppl.. today is a gift...

Sorry it's takin awhile to respond, been to brickyard 400 time trials Well, I feel for you and your situation. It is clear that your husband determined he was gay due to his lack of interest in togetherness with you. That could not be futher from the truth in my situation. See, i feel these things & have these fantasies but as I said, I am totally in love with my spouse. Nope, you could not compete with a man, if a man is what he wants, but again, in my case, I want my wife, I am totally turned on by her, we make love 3 timess per week, and then F*** 3 more times that week. As I said in my post, my wife is freaky/kinky whatever & she openly fantasizes about being with a woman. I understand her completely that she only wants a porn beauty and would prefer that I'm there too. In this sense, I cannot compete with a woman, but I do know that she is 100% committed to me and am comfortable with the notion that she may have all sorts of things that excite her. You aren't pond scum, you are a caring person to even thing about answering my post. He had other interests, there is nothing you can do except for loving yourself and remembering that every day is a gift. The more I think about this the more I have to say that the first response was again, right on, especially after realizing that my own wife has the same feelings....DUH! It just feels strange to be a man and feel this, cuz after all, we are suppposed to be homophobes and manly. LOL! Any other men feel like this out there? Alot of views guys and no posts... create another identity or something, I would like to hear from you and how you are coping/have coped with it.

Judging from the over 60 views now and only your 1 reply, you must have hit it on the head. I have seen other advise you have given others in several different threads and let me say that you seem to be wise beyond your years. What you had to say to me in your reply seems to be right on. I would only add that i occasionally view photos of nude males and photos of nude females but at this point do feel it's just to continue the fantasy. Thanks again for comments/suggestions Still open for any other comments or others that may have felt/done this.

I feel silly to ask others' oppinions of this but here it goes. Let me start by saying, Ive been with 7 female partners, 0 male partners I am married, several kids. I am totally in love with my wife. Here is the weird part: I have had SEVERAL guy on guy fantasies. NOW, dont get me wrong, the act of two men and anal grosses me out, except when i'm wanking, then sometimes i fantasize about a man entering me too hot. When im not "in a fit of passion" nothing. Me NEVER taking a man anally... maybe my wife, but doubt it. I fantisize about suckin a penis because they are so sexual and exciting to me, but would never do this..... I would hope anyway. I love to watch my wife do this, cuz it looks so awesome! I do not fantisize about these things while with her. Sex with wife is awesome! I love all parts of it, no anal though, again, it grosses me out here too. Unless of course she took a strap on to me???? We are very freaky in bed with several toys. I have used a bp on occasion, but without her. I'm weird, I will always be I guess. I doubt I'm gay cuz I love her "parts" soooo much. I ?? the bi thing cuz of my obsession with the male member Anyone else get these impulses? Again, I would never act on them, I'm married and 100% monogamous (sp) and deeply committed to my spouse. Well?