Hello there. I can totally relate to what you are going through. My wife also pulled the same thing on me about not reaching her goals and needing time apart, and before I knew it, she was later involved with another guy. Though we did agree to separate and possibly see other people, I still never emotionally prepared myself for that possibility and so when it happened, I was just devastated and did not know what to do. I suggest you take some time to figure out what you really want before you make any decisions or talk to her. I talked to a counselor who really helped see things more clearly and helped make a decision that has helped me a lot through this. I believe the site is link removed .
I was hesitant about getting advice from a counselor, but I finally decided to give it a try and it really helps to open up to a professional and get some good insight and helpful suggestions. You should give it try, what have you got to lose? Just calm down and stay rational. Good luck!
David
