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thank you, he appologized profusely and now things are peachy keen. Live and learn

Thank you, we've both talked about the "IFs". We communicate well and have been in a long relationship, if he was the father to my children then that would be according to our plan, It was more an issue with his reaction than the problem of pregnancy. We've both been tested for STDs, and use condoms with spermicide, and the pill. I'm more worried about him leaving, which is someting i could handle after a while. But his reation was not consistant with our talks, and its worrisome. by the way, i got my period 1 hour after taking the test. And when the doctors where checking to see why i hadn't had my period in a half year, i got my period while sitting on the exam table. My periods a precocious little bastard

This morning i took a pregnancy test and it came out negative. I always use a condom and am on birth control, i sometimes have an irregular period and sometimes no period at all (doctors don't know why). But I was very scared and so was my boyfriend. I think he freaked out more than me. was it a mistake to tell him? It was a real reality check for him, and things are going to change, but if this happens again i can either take the test alone or take it with him. I wanted support, but did not get any and had to let him lean on my shoulder instead. Anyone have this experience?