legend

to who has replied to the post about my relationship, i am very grateful to what people have suggested, and taken everything into account, i think for the ime being that we need to hav some space for a few days or so then sit down and talk about what is wrong in the realtiomnship and t s if we can work it out or not, i really hope that we can though. Thank you guys

Hi I dont know if anyone can help me but i have been with my girlfriend for well over 3mnths and when we started off things were so magical, even our sex lives was great. But then we started to really get to know each other, especially when she gets drunk, she turns into a completely different person and she can get really nasty and say hurtful things, and when she wakes up the next day she is all lovey dovy towards me as if nothing has happened, i have tried talking to her about it and she said she will try and sort it out, but it hasnt. It happened again the other night and just the past week my Grandfather had passed away and i aw very emotional about things and thought i was going to lose her and i had nobody to talk to. Then the other morning she texts me asking if was unhappy about anything and i told her what was wrong and we was texting for ages sorting things out, we even said to each other that we would try and spice our sex lives up a bit to see if that would help and i probably knew that it would, and i was really looking forward to it, but hen when she had finished work she said that she awa going down to the bar with her friends, and i thought ok then, i would see her later because i was with some other friends and i had to sort myself out, and by the time she had finished i should be ready. Then when it comes to actually doing what we said we was going to do, she just went quiet and turned on her side and went to sleep, and i got really narked, and text one of my friends to see if we could talk, then she accused me of sleeping with somebody else, and i would never in a million years cheat on her i love ther so much, and i would do anything for her and over the time we have been together i have proved that. Anyway we argued a bit then i left as calmly as i could, and now i feel as if the has been a drain in the trust, love and faith in the relationship that we have developed, and i really dont want to split with her. So has anybody got any advice that they could give, as it is tearing me apart, i have never felt like this in my life before. Legend