Juliaroberts_jr

You are absolutely right that in future he might disapprove other things about me as well. But maybe he won't. maybe this is the only thing that he has an issue with. Is there any way of making him realize that someone's few months failed marriage doesn't make that person a failure. And it shouldn't be a big deal for him?? Maybe he'll understand..... don't you think.

He is from Middle East. Born here and is very social and outgoing but shy in dating. I am from Asia - very outgoing but shy in dating. Ok. Thats what happened. I tried to talk to him on different topics and I saw the successful results - he started coming to my office without any reason...... he invited me to an event (it wasn't a date though. It was a get together of about 100 people). Anyway I thought he knew about my previous marriage but he didn't. So when he came to know, he kind of changed. He still talks to me but I don't see that interest anymore. He is so nice and sweet and I don't wanna loose a guy only because of a reason that am divorced. He was never married and maybe he wants a "never married" girl. So what should i do in this matter???????

I really like a guy who seemed to be interested in me but when he came to know that I am divorced, he lost interest. Well, I was only married for a few months and its just that my ex had a lot of issues that he didn't tell me before we got married. I only knew him for few months before we got married and couldn't judge a lot of things. Now this guy, I know him for about a year now - we work for the same company - different departments. He is very sweet and nice. We never dated but we were getting close. Both of us are very shy and that was the reason, we couldn't ask each other out. It is hard for me to accept that someone looses interest in me only because I am divorced and this thing is killing me. I have to make him realize that my divorce is not a negative point in me - I was just deceived by a guy who married to me because of getting higher career and my money etc. Plz plz help me. Give me a way to solve my problem. Is there any way, I can be with him...........

Hi. Plz help me out. I'm divorced and now really interested in a guy. I work at the same place but he isn't in my department so I had to come up with something each time i wanna talk to him. He is very shy and from a different culture where things are not very open. That's why I can not take a risk of asking him out. He seems to be interested in me but he has never said anything yet. Please give me an advice, what should I do. I really like him and it seems to me that things can really work out because I've been noticing him for some time now. I'll appreciate any advice and try to work on it. BUT PLZ GIVE ME AN ADVICE ASAP BECAUSE I KNOW, HE DOSN'T WANNA BE SINGLE ANYMORE. I am afraid if he'll find someone before I approach him.