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Well she just went for a tour to Taiwan. Wednesday den will be back. Can u all imagine I dun even know about this?? Leaving the company soon. Anyway I also have told one of my company employee. Den after listening she ask me one simple question. Do u want to tell her? I was like dunno wat to do. Den she took out a coin for it to make the decision. In the end it say tell her." That is what I planned to do. Maybe that is part of growing up. But the hardest thing is when u like the person and u cannot let her know. But anyway I think I ought to have a stable job if I have the chance to go into BGR. About whether she will contact me or not I think I will leave it to fate ba.. Never Been in a relationship before...

Hello everyone, Ya I agree I dun know her well. Before I like her I think we talk MORE... now is like.. I also really dunno what to say. I know all the depressions came from myself. I admit I am the kind who really think a lot. How can I prevent this? That is my weak area. Sometime I want to care for her I also dunno how to start man. I would be the one quiet listening to their conversion, den sometimes I will join in lo.. pathetic man. I mean I am like very quiet to them. Actually I also like to talk one but dunno how to join in cause no common topic. Anyway leaving end of this month for my army. I also agree very bad infatuation. Last time whenever I like a girl I will let her know. But this time I will keep it to myself becos I know I can do it. Tell also no point(attached). I mean the feelings just came like that, not I purposely go and make it one. Now she also like dun dare to look at me at that.. I know after I say this maybe u might think that I am really causing problems for myself. Last few days I also ask myself this qn. How come the girl that I like always dun like me? When I knew her and we talk it is like Now it is like (after i had a crush on her) I think I should talk more with them as a group.

Hi to all. Guess you all know what my feelings are now. last friday I called her friend to ask about her status den she say, ya, she has a boyfriend. I was like.. forgot liao..depressed for that moment. Why I wanted that answer? And I dun want to hurt myself. I know it is hard. Last time when I treat her as a colleague I think it was better. Now the friendship I think not even friendship.. colleague has gone down until very low. Anyway Now I am trying to taking it easy. It is going to be quite a tough process. The word seems easy and I am not even maintaining the friendship at ALL.. haha.. I know u all will say I sucks. Really.. sit together also never talk... lame hor. I mean I never even talk to her. I also dunno what's wrong man. Anyway it will take me sometime to be normal again. At least I have got the answer.

The story is in 4 parts. This is the time when I do not know her status.(attached or married). Is is wrong to like a person who is so much older than you? I am 20 and I got a crush on a lady who is 26. She is a university graduate and with car. Also I do not know her status.(Attached or married?) Her name is A.(Fake Name) I knew her in my attachment company. Next week I will be working as a temp staff till end of may. I will be going army on june. Last time when I see a pretty girl I will like them. But that is because I just find the girl pretty. But I knew her for 2 months and suddenly I got this spark on her. I am attracted by her personality. last weekend we went on a outing as a group of 5 people. We went at 9pm den we play bowling, arcade and pool till 1am next morning. I even toss coin to see whether should I go for the outing but in the end I follow my heart. The 3 of them took a cab back cos they were staying close to each other. I stay in a different area so one of the guys told her to send me back. When she send me back, She asked me some questions like how come i am so quiet in the company? She also ask about my project stuffs. After I told her about database project, i told her that my project is not that fantastic den still have do a presentation. After I have said this den she say confidence in urself. cos my supervisiors play badminton, she also say if they all got play badminton den I were to join them, I can ask her and our group along. After she send me home I send her a good night message and she replied me gd night too. I told myself hoped this is not the last outing. Also, monday when we went back to the company, cos there was one girl who did not went for the outing. Den she ask how was it? A say I was good in bowling then i keep looking at A face. den she ask how come I keep looking at her? Den immediately I look away.I am worry that I have drop this hint. She treats me quite well and I think I am touched by her actions. How do i know the way she treat me is the same as anyone else? I think she only treat me as a small brother. But I am feeling quite troubled and I do not know excatly what to do. i have told all my friends about it. I even called counselling services.I am feeling very painful right now. Should I just treat her as a sister? I know if I treat her as a sister I should not have all these feelings. What should I do now? I still want this friend. Should I forget her?

Helloz.. last few months I know her from a stranger to a friend. 2 weeks later I will be leaving this place for my national service(NS). Then the way she care for people and her body langauge makes me think the wrong idea. So now I just have to accept the fact she is attached. And she really give me some good memories that she have given me. Feel like telling her 'thanks for the memories that u have given me' but dunno how to say. And also sometime the way she look at me also makes me think of the wrong things. Maybe that is the way she look at people. And when I say she treat me well, maybe actually it is very normal de. i give 1 example: This one quite long already. like cos we went out for lunch, den I was taking the front seat... I was having a bit of running nose.. den she just lower the air con... .. I know it is normal.. I think I ought to learn how to control my emotions. Will she keep me in contact as a friend after I leave?

hi to all. Now got talk talk to her.. but it is like as a colleague. bit by bit lo... This friday heard that they got a outing also not asking me along.. I also duNNo why leh.. Anyway thanks a million that you all have reply. I hope I can treat her as a colleague like any other people. My last day is on 31 this month. Hope I still can keep in contact with them(including her) after I quit but I think it is almost impossible.. The reason is I still want this friend. Does she still want me as a friend? I mean after I quit, will she contact me? or forget it?

Hi to all. Guess you all know what my feelings are now. last friday I called her friend to ask about her status den she say, ya, she has a boyfriend. I was like.. forgot liao..depressed for that moment. Why I wanted that answer? And I dun want to hurt myself. I know it is hard. Last time when I treat her as a colleague I think it was better. Now the friendship I think not even friendship.. colleague has gone down until very low. Anyway Now I am trying to taking it easy. It is going to be quite a tough process. The word seems easy and I am not even maintaining the friendship at ALL.. haha.. I know u all will say I sucks. Really.. sit together also never talk... lame hor. I mean I never even talk to her. I also dunno what's wrong man. Anyway it will take me sometime to be normal again. At least I have got the answer.

Hi to all.. First I would like to thank for u all whom have reply to my message. Her looks is normal. Not that pretty ba. I am attracted by her personality. I hope this is not the first and last outing. This sentence was what I say to myself. Also I am quite a quiet person and I am not a really good talker. I think the reason I got a crush is that the small little things that she did for me makes me feel touched. Have confidence in yourself. I would like to explain this sentence. After I told her about database project, i told her that my project is not that fantastic den still have do a presentation. After I have said this den she say confidence in urself. Cos we are in the same dept, means we still can see each other. Den after I presented, she look at me and I also look at her for a second. something like hinting my presentation was over and I did not bad. Should I ask her close friend for her status? Maybe I should really forget her.

I am 20 and I got a crush on a lady who is 26. She is a university graduate and with car. Also I do not know her status.(Attached or married?) Her name is A. I knew her in my attachment company. Next week I will be working as a temp staff till end of may. I will be going army on june. Last time when I see a pretty girl I will like them. But that is because I just find the girl pretty. But I knew her for 2 months and suddenly I got this spark on her. I am attracted by her personality. last weekend we went on a outing as a group of 5 people. We went at 9pm den we play bowling, arcade and pool till 1am next morning. I even toss coin to see whether should I go for the outing but in the end I follow my heart. The 3 of them took a cab back cos they were staying close to each other. I stay in a different area so one of the guys told her to send me back. When she send me back, She asked me some questions like how come i am so quiet in the company? She also ask about my project stuffs. She also told me to have more confidence in myself. This sentence really makes me think a lot. cos my supervisiors play badminton, she also say if they all got play badminton den I were to join them, I can ask her and our group along. After she send me home I send her a good night message and she replied. I hope this is not the first and last outing. Also, monday when we went back to the company, cos there was one girl who did not went for the outing. Den she ask how was it? A say I was good in bowling then i keep looking at A face. den she ask how come I keep looking at her? Den immediately I look away.I am worry that I have drop this hint. She treats me quite well and I think I am touched by her actions. How do i know the way she treat me is the same as anyone else? I think she only treat me as a small brother. But I am feeling quite troubled and I do not know excatly what to do. i have told all my friends about it. I even called counselling services.I am feeling very painful right now. Should I just treat her as a sister? I know if I treat her as a sister I should not have all these feelings. What should I do now? I still want this friend. Should I forget her?