Cheryl1984

Me and him have been through alot. We have been together for almost 4 years. He has been the only partner I have had. I really love him, and i no out relationship is not based on sex, but a good bit of it is. I want to talk to him about how I felt when he said that to me, but I dont no how to bring it up. Since he said it, I have been trying to avoid having any sexual contact. I dont want to lose him, but at the same time I dont want to get hurt or hurt him. Besides what he said, our relationship has been farely good.

He meant that is it not hard to have sex. And for some reason I have trouble doing different things. He apologized about it, but I still feel bad that I can not please him.

I have been active for about 3 1/2 years now. I have tried everything to get better in bed to please my boyfriend. I have went on web sites, bought magizine that give advice on sex, and went as far as going into a porn shop with my boyfriend and watching the pornos with him to try to get better. It seems like everything I do is just wrong. Can anyone help me? I dont want to live the rest of my life thinking about how men think I am bad in bed.

When I first started to give my present boyfriend blow jobs it was very uncomfortable. We new each others history. If you no each others history I dont see why you should have to use one. Giving a BJ is not the most greatest thing in the world, I still don't care for giving them. My best advice to you would be to do what makes you comfortable. If you feel (or dont no this person very well) then you should use a condom for std purposes.

Thank you all so much for your advice. I really thought something was wrong with me for the longest time. I will try all of you advice. When I tried to talk to my boyfriend about it he said it thought it was because of my weight. I gained alot of weight in the last few years ive been active. I told him i was sorry I can not please him enough and he said "Its not like sex is hard". It really hurt my feelings. Hopefully this advice will work for me. Thank you all again so very much.! !!!!!

When I am on top while me and my boyfriend are having sex its painful for me. Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything I can maybe do to make this more comfortable for me?