After dating a guy for 1year and 2 months I was totally in love with him. I gave him my complete heart, became a part of his family and let him into my family and friends. Our problems began when last July when he cheated on me. It was a kiss and after a long time I forgave him. It was hard but I loved him so much. After months of happiness and him talking about marriage then 3 days before Valentines day he tells me that he loves me as a friend, not a girlfriend. This completely crushes me and I spend 2 weeks crying, not eating, and feeling like I want to die. At the end of the 3rd week we had made plans to go to our company party and so we decided to go as friends. Of course I went hoping he would realize how good we are together and he did. At the end of the night he told me how wonderful I was and how perfect I was for him. He said he wanted to take things really slow. We didn't hang out much the next week and he had asked me to hang out Sunday but did not call until 11pm and said he had fallen asleep all day. (Could be possible with him but still BS) So then that following Wednesday I blow up and ask him what is going on and he tells me he thinks we should split up for good. Here I am back at square one and not knowing how to act. I tell him that it is fine but I do not want to talk to him at all and I do not want to be friends. The 3 weeks when we were broken up before we still talked regularly. So its been a week since I told him that and we have not spoken. I miss him so much and everyday seems to get harder, I thought it would get easier. I dreamed of marriage, children, building a house, my whole future involved him. So I feel as if I've lost him and lost all of my hopes and dreams. He live about 5 mins down the road from me, we work together, and we have common friends. Should I try talking to him and try to be his friend or should I keep trying to stay away from him? How do I get over this man that I still want to be with so badly?
