Broken_Hope

Thanks a lot, I just hope all works out...he's a great guy when he's off the drugs and everything. It's a pity how much he' messed his life up. I suggested getting him help, no one thinks it will do any good anyways.

Bonjour. I suppose I'm looking for some good advice seeing as I have no idea what to do anymore. My ex boyfriend has two kids, ages 4 and 8 (he's 23) Which is bad enough. His past consists of, getting his ex wife pregnant (obviously) but he was a cocaine junkie for almost 3 years. Also during that time he got his wife into swinging, sometimes he even brought his friends home and let them use her for sexual purposes whenever they wanted. If that wasnt enough, he abused her mentally and physically, resulting in her needing psychiatric help. Both kids are now in foster homes and he managed to clean up his act...which is when I met him. He was honest from the start about his past...and I thought I would give him a try since I believe he could be a great guy. 4 months later when I was not around he did coke again, and now he decided to deal it (this happened two nights ago) He disappeared the other day, and everyone was worried about him, since his latest cocaine addiction I left him...I dont need that in my life. He's also into a thing called Scientology, and from what I have seen and heard it's a brainwashing cult....and no matter what I do, I cant get him out of it. Bringing up his kids wont even make him listen to me. I dont know what to do, any advice would help a lot..thanks.

I see, then I would see it as more of a caring way...and im sure if he felt he must continue talking about it, seems like he likes you..could possibly be both. When you like someone, you tend to care about them anyway right?

I would say something like that to someone who never smiles as well. I don't smile much, but people consider me to be cold hearted, which is not true. When he said " oh wait, you're not allowed to be happy are you?" it was more of a sarcastic remark really..