apprentice_2005

Hey everyone, I know I already posted something simular but i feel i didnt really get the advice i needed or explain properly enough, cause i'm still confused lol. Anyway.. I am a girl and bi, my friend (that claims she is bi) whom I never saw unless we were clubbing with mutual friends recently invited me over to her mates house where they party. I ended up going and staying for about 3 nights. while i was there these are all the mixed signals I got from her: - She was hugging me while i passed out on the couch the first night (we were watching tv). - The next night we were all drunk, she gave me a lap dance, kissed me (peck) on the lips a few times. - Said i looked hot in the photo cause i said "i hate photos". - I went home the 2nd day and she msgd me 3 hours later saying wanna come back for drinks? - When she looks at me she smiles. - She and her friend were joking, her friend (girl) said i'll just sleep with tammy (me) and she said no she's mine. Also the next night her friend said something about them two being 2gether and she said dont tammy will get jealous. - She was said to me (when it was just me, her and two guys) you and me will sleep in the spare bed, but it didnt happen lol damn - We had a talk when i was upset, and she said = youre a beautiful person, and so calming etc - she cried in my arms one of these nights, and no-one elses even though weve hardly hung out b4. - but she is sleeping with a guy friend, and seems to like him atm, but she says there's nothing there. as he doesnt want a relationship. - sent me a msg saying, the first girl i was with said shed never even kissed a girl before, while i was sitting accross from her lol. - in the last 2days she hasnt been msging me or ringing me. only replying to a few msg's. - We are always thinking the same, like we go to say something at the same time. and lol when we sing this sounds so dumb but we sound in tune 2gether her mate even mentioned it. and we have heaps in common. I think that's enough, i can just feel she likes me i guess, but i'm not sure cause i like her and i know how much it can destort reading signals. Can you please give me ur opinion, Does she like me? is there any chance she doesn't. How can i tell? Also what should I do.. I really like her. More than a friend and as a friend. mostly more. should i ask her out in a way that wont hurt our friendship we have only just built. I cant wait its driving me crazy lol. thanks guys

Hey me again, ahh, its so confusing. cause today i msg'd her twice she didn't reply also rang her n asked what are u doing 2nite and she said nothing going home but on my way home from the pub i saw her friends car outside this house she's at (party house) and her friend only knows her. i dont wanna push her away, but i wanna know how she feels. should i ask her in person? what should i say?? and is there any chance she was just joking around by flirting??

Hey, well i have a friend who I only saw when I went out drinking on weekends and she was there with mutual friends etc, but recently she invited me over to her house to have drinks with her and housemates. In the 3 nights I was there we became really close fast, like theirs this connection like we've been friends for ages and we have alot in common. She says she's bi, and the other night we were drunk and she was flirting with me infront of everyone, she gave me a lap dance, kissed me on the lips (just peck) a few times, touching boobs etc joking around and hugging, also her friend whos a girl (and str8) said something about me and she said 2 her "no, shes mine". The thing is she has a guyfriend who she is sleeping with, she seems to like him and got upset later on about him flirting with others etc and the whole him not wanting anything more i guess u could say, I was there all night for her and she was hugging me crying in my arms for about 2 hrs on and off about alot of stuff. Does is sound like she likes me? etc please help. I really like her.

well, last wkend my 21st - i met this girl and we kissed and i ended up staying at her house, all night she was all over me. It was the best connection between us, and we did more than kiss at her house. I really like her.. But i msgd her 2day saying do u wanna hang out this wkend n she said: hey, how r ya? thanx but im going to my cousins this weekend. and thats all she wrote, i feel like shes not in2 me..??? what do u think - please help me what should i do... have i been used? - does she like me?

i like this girl at work but im not sure if she is bi or actually likes me. everytime she walks past me she smiles and says something to make me laugh. she just sent me a msg saying what she was doing and stuff but also said in it "your crazy but in a goodway". she wlays pays me out but in a joking way, like a guy would pay u out if he liked you.. but when i stayed at her house one nite when she had a party it ended up just me n her staying at her house and i was drunk and said ill sleep on ur bedroom floor n she said no i cant sleep with other ppl in my room. thats the only thing. maybe its true she cant, but if she wanted me she would of said yeeh, or maybe she didnt want 2 rush things.. this is why i need ur advice. does it sound like she likes me? what r the signs? what can i do without str8 out asking her cause if she isnt bi id like 2 be her friend we have the same sense of humour and connect well.