Momoya

PFf, I wrote this big story before accidentaly deleting it. We were together for 4 years, broke up for 6 months and are now back together for 6 months and happier than ever. In the 6 months apart there was 1 month of a bit of texting, 2 months of NC and 3 months of seeing each other once a week as friends. At the end of these 3 months I was to one to contact him to ask to see each other more again. I think some of the reasons that we succesfully got back together are: - The problems in the relationship were fixable - During the break we (independently) reflected on the relationship and on our OWN mistakes instead of just the ones the other person made - We (independently) worked on fixing the problems, not for the other person but for ourselves - (partly thanks to this thread) I realized I would be okay with or without him, in the end what happens happens. - We talked. A lot. About our fears and insecurities in the new relationship. How we could prevent things from happening, how we could compromise etc etc. - We got to slowly get to know/like each other again as friends.