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Thanks for all your replies. You're right, my self-esteem needs to be improved. After disappearing for 2 days, I decided that I missed him, and couldn't take it anymore. So I went online and told him I hate him and asked for a break up. He didn't believe me and managed to talk me out. So I told him that I'm overweight and sent him more pics of me! And that I wear glasses. He accepted it just fine, he said I look fine and beautiful. We're fine now. I'm planning to go on diet, since he accepts me the way I am, I shall make an extra effort. I won't go on a crash diet, though. Now I'm just wondering, what would we be doing when he comes here? He's probably going to be here for 3-4 days, at Easter before school starts. Are we supposed to be meeting the whole 3-4 days? Shall I invite him to my house? Do we hang out at the mall? What am I suppose to do when we first meet? Do I hug him or something? It's his first visit to Ontario (He lives in Quebec) and I'm wondering what we're supposed to do. I'm worried because I want him returning to Quebec with a smile, and not think it's a wasted and boring trip. I don't know what to do, and maybe some of you guys are more experienced.

Hi there, first I'll introduce myself and my situation. I'm 15 and my online boyfriend is 17. After 7 months of him going for me online, finally he succeeded in making me in like with him. (I won't describe it as love since it's much more complex). Right now we have been together for about 2 weeks. We have been friends since last summer, we have talked online once or twice before, and we both like each other. Reasons why I didn't want a bf: 1. I have communication prob. Not that I'm an absolute loner in real life, but I somehow stay away from the crowd basically because I have nothing to say and am shy. 2. I have a fear of being hated although I never admitted it to anyone nor people know it. 3. I'm often overly sensitive, I can be very depressed over the slightest thing that my loved ones do to me. Reasons why my current bf managed to get me: 1. He has proven himself sincere, although over and over I'm suspicious of his real intention and if he's really sincere. 2. His character and attitude matches mine, he's just pleasant to be with. This doesn't always come to me since I'm reserved. My bf said he's coming over to my state with his friend this upcoming March, and my fears are: 1. We most probably won't work it out well in real life although on net we go along good. 2. I consider myself as boring and not exciting, when my bf, I think he's more to partying type of guy, since his friends often come by his house, while I don't exactly hang out with my friends other than school. 3. My shyness will be such a lame thing to him, cos he will think I'm boring! Plus his friend might also think I'm even more boring! 4. I'm overweight. Although I've sent him photos of me, but those are my real good pictures, which makes the real me worse than that! While he's pretty good looking!! 5. I wear glasses, when I lied to him that I didn't. 6. He might get surprised and feel bad cos the girl he has been in like with is so much worse than he might think!! He might think its funny and humiliating. 7. Since I'm a loner, I'll feel embarrassed because he'll expect me to bring a friend with me so there're 4 of us. 8. I don't consider myself as someone whose very good looking, plus I'm overweight, and he's good looking. Why would he wants me when there're so many hot chicks at his college? I think. I've told that I'm somehow a loner and stuff, although there're still some things which I can't tell him yet. My choices: 1. Disappear from the net. Although it's so hard for me since I spend most of my time online, maybe disappearing is the best, since he will finally get over me. This way maybe we won't even be able to contact me when he comes here in March! 2. Change my appearance. Go on diet, get better clothes, go to the salon, and practice to open up more at school, so when I meet him I'm better than what I am now! But it's hard, cos MArch is less than 2 months away!! 3. Tell him every single bad thing about me. Which will turn off him kind of, it's possibly he gets turns off, and doesn't like me anymore, or he gets over it and continue liking me anyway. 4. It's been 2 days since I haven't came online, and I miss him. I'm pretty sure he misses me too. It wasn't easy for me not to come online for 2 days straight, but maybe it's a chance to move on and make him forget about me. which makes it a - Breakup. I can break up with him and tell him I hate him and that I don't want us to be together anymore.. which probably will hurt us both, but that might be best for both of us. The problem is, it's not even easy to tell him the worsts about me. We like each other very much, and he told me he loves me, although I can't really believe that since we're just online. I don't know what to do. I hope someone will listen.