mcpiper

Sometimes being friends is better than nothing. It's up to you

Never had one! ;o}

What is LDR?

Whats wrong with being friends for awhile? After all isn't that the way it started? You can still heal and maintain your friendship with her. Maybe by staying friends you can get back what was lost if anything.;o}

YESSSSSSS

I don't know where to start but I do know I need to say something. I have been there, it has been almost eight years ago and another divorce since it happened to me. I am still suffering the not being able to trust syndrome. As a result of infidelity I no longer see my two children and I wasn't even the one commiting the adultery. I caught him after 16 years of marriage, he was a preachers son. I say if there is no verbal abuse or physical abuse stop!!!!! There can't be nothing you could do with the new guy that you couldn't do with the present right? This brings back so many bad memories. I wish I could rewind my last eight years so could you could watch some of what you might be headed for

PIPER

No, I think marriage should be banned then there would not be as many divorces.

I say give it time. Be honest with the both of them and if possible all should date other people. Maybe in time dating will show which one you really want to be with. As far as the fighting we all have bad days but unless it's really worth the resentment of the fight don't. ;o}

Yeah, that is what my boyfriend says. We women just can't make the male gender happy! ;o)