TashaLeah1990

I have been reading through a lot of these stories and it's helped calm me down a lot and feel much more hopeful which is helping a lot. What I would love to know, is more about success stories where a couple (me and my ex) were together for 9+ years, and engaged for a few of those years, getting broken up with for seemingly various reasons but the ex has been seeing someone else but no one else knows about it, (he doesn't know I know either), the ex has told this girl he loves them and is mad for them, and they have also slept with them as well. I still live with the ex and we get on great, it's been 6 months since he broke it off with me and I'm absolutely devastated that we aren't together for so many reasons and I don't want him back just cause I'm lonely but as far as I'm concerned, I really love him and can make him happy and so many other things. Would it be better if I moved out? I'm terrified he's going to move her in where we've lived for 2 years together. I really would love for a reconciliation more than anything but reading all these stories have helped me think a bit more straighter. Don't get me wrong, I'm working on myself and all the things that needed improving. But I can't tell if the relationship he has is just a rebound relationship that's lasted a while. As I know some do. But are there any success stories where the dumper and dumpee still lived together and were still friends and got back together even though the dumper is seeing someone else (as far as I'm aware, I don't know if it a relationship or a kind of fling with feelings, if that makes sense). I know my situation is not going to be exactly like others but it's just a case of ex's being friends while ex is seeing someone else and getting back together down the line? I also know this whole reconciliation wouldn't happen overnight but I'm a very patient person when I need to be. Please don't give me any negative responses please. Thank you if you read all of that.