69_king

Well, I like good debates about issues on which we have opposing views but arguments specifically concerning your relationship are probably not that great.

Its hard to say, its one of those grey areas.

But as long as one of you is not constantly nagging the other and your arguments end in some kind of agreement then I don;t think it si too bad.

Maybe you are still too young to ejaculate??

I can remember the first time I did and I was about 12.

OK, lets get one thing straight here:

2 women having sex = beautiful.

2 men having sex = disgusting.

(of course thats from a guy's perspective )

I've always liked average to slightly above average girls. But I never realized how much until today. I was in a restaurant and there were about 6 girls working there, all around my age. They all kind of looked the same except 5 of them were skinny and 1 (the bartender) was (as kindly as I can put it) a very voluptuous girl. I could not keep my eyes off her!! Oh My God, for some reason I was just so attracted to her I was almost bursting!

I'm sorry to read that. I know everyone's going to say "Its only been 1 or 2 days, give him a chance" . So I'm going to say that too.

BUT if I were in his place I would have already messaged you back, no matter how busy or what was happing to me, if we had had sex then I would have somehow contacted you already. But thats just me. Well, actually I would not have had sex so quickly.

Anyway, don't give up just yet, and do not blame yourself if it doesn't work out.

Yes, its probably just a hormone thing. You can't do anything about it but it makes it a lot easier if you just blame it on something, like hormones, and tell yourself that tomorrow you will probably feel better.

I'm a 25 year old male so I'm sure I have pretty stable hormones but even I have days like that, today is one of them! I just can't stand not having a girlfriend today. But yesterday I was feeling glad I didn't have one!!

And also, any kind of good change or something new in your life will cheer you up. Find something to look forward to, that makes the days go by easier!

its good if its flat when you are standing up straight and tall with your chest out but its cute if it comes out a bit when you are in a more relaxed position.

my vote is for voluptuousness.

Seriously, people need to learn how to measure

 

ya, if you measure along the bottom of the shaft instead of the top then it gives you en extra inch or so.

 

True measurement is along the top.

Width matters more than length anyway. If you're 5" or more in circumferance at the widest point then that is good. (I've heard)

Wait a minute, are you really 13!! You shouldn't be having 'relationships' with guys who are using your body!! Heck, you shouldn't really be having anything that could even be considered a 'relationship'. I know I'm sounding like an old person but seriously, think a little bit more about what you are doing!

I can't bring myself to kiss a girl until I am certain about her which, with me, usually takes more than 2 dates!

I mean, if I decided I didn't really 'click' with her after say 3 or 4 dates then it would be easier to break up with her if we hadn't started kissing and stuff already.

If I kissed someone on the cheek at the end of the second date then that is a pretty good sign that I like her!

I've read posts on this forum about people who have been going out for months before they kissed, so it's not all that important.

Have a couple of drinks first to loosen yourself up. Then it becomes easier to just do it. You'll still be nervous picking up the phone but you will have less inhibition and you just have to try to turn your mind off and stop thinking and then just dial the number.

You have nothing to lose:

If you don't call then you will never see her again and you will be kicking yourself for wasting the opportunity. And you will always be wondering what it could have been like.

If you do call and she says no then you will never see her again but you can put all the blame on her instead of yourself.

And if she says yes ...

Has he been drinking a lot of Egg Nog ??

The guy opening doors for the girl: It may be an old outdated custom but I use it.... am I just an outdated old romantic fool then?? Dont women these days want me to do that?? I was always under the impression that it was never really a bad thing to do- just shows that she's that extra bit special, am I actually freaking them out by going too far out of my way?

Ya, I always do that on a first date, I just can't help myself, its the way I was brought up! But I don't do it every single time we use the car.

As for a girl doing it for me, well if she didn't it would not bother me, its not really a tradition like the guy doing it.

How many orgasms do you give yourself when you do this??

And its not unnatural to be addicted. We are supposed to be addicted to it. That is the whole point!!

If she wasn't completely depressed or anything then it wouldn't really turn me off. It would feel good to cheer her up a bit and maybe give her the self-esteem she deserves.

But if she was really down then I would be worried about other pyschological problems.

Hmmm, on second thought, perhaps you should remove the picture that's a side-profile...Is it really necessary for these ladies to see you from EVERY angle? It gives off the impression that you're trying to hard, whereas replacing it with a picture of you actually doing something (as others suggested) is more natural and appealing.

You know what, I think I'm just going to remove them all! Just keep the first one.

Shy-soul, those analogies about the cars and serving other beings and stuff were just hypothetical examples I was coming up with for how to describe what "a meaning of life" could be. I don't believe those examples are the way it is.

As for the higher beings, who says they have to be All-Powerful? A cat is a higher being than an ant but the cat isn't all powerful. I'm just saying they would be higher beings than us. And anyway, as I said above, I don't really believe this is the way it is.

Maybe our "function" is to love each other but a function is not a reason for existence.

We are all looking for the answer but do we really know what the question is?

I think we are all confused and in disagreement about the actual question we are asking and that is why we are disagreeing about the possible answer.

And if we are the creation of a supreme being or "God" then what is the reason for Gods existence??

Yer not calling yerself "69 King" on the dating site are you?

 

If so we've found the problem.

HAHAHA! No, I'm not using "69king"!! I'm not telling you what it is though.

Ok, the prob is not with my profile or nickname or anything because I have had heaps of ladies sending me smiles. (or at least I did in the first week) I have only replied to 1 because most of them live just a little bit too far away. And they could do with some better pics themselves. Like, smiling doesn't hurt!!

Oh my gosh, I remembered who it is you remind me of! Have you ever watched the show Sabrina The Teenaged Witch, the newer version starring Melissa Joan Hart? Well there's an actor in it, I believe his name is Josh in the show, and you ressemble him quite a bit!

Never watched it but ...

Like this:

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Hey, thats freaky.

I look more like that guy than ony of the others I listed (well, in real life I don't really look like any of these people, unless I made myself up, which I don't)

Golf is pretty hard, but if you stick with it and take lessons, you can usually get pretty good. It helps if you have good coordination, but not everyone does.

 

Golf is probably harder to improve at if you don't have a good coach because you have no idea what you're doing wrong. My golf swing always hooked to the left before I took lessons and learned that I kept standing up partly while I swung, lol.

 

If you could, 69king, I would really love to know what a typical date is like for you. Here, you seem to me like a pretty level-headed guy who would know his way around things like this. How do your dates seem to go?

Actually I got the name 69king from my golfing buddy the day I shot my first 69 on the golf course. Actually I shot a 67 last year so I guess I could call myself the 67king but 69king is funnier.

If I was as good at dating as I was at golf I would not be sitting in front of my computer right now, in fact I'd probably be having a threesome.

I'd be putting it in the hole a lot more often!!

A date for me in the summer usually involves some kind of fun activity because I am an activity-oriented competitive guy. Although, I'll let the girl win sometimes if its a game (well, maybe let isn't always the case)

In the winter its mostly a dinner date which goes something like this:

I (dressed nicely) pick up the girl (dressed casually) at her place, open the door for her, discuss where we would like to go for dinner..... now eating, the conversastion goes like this:

Me: "So, what do you do (at your workplace)?"

Her: "blah blah" (2 or 3 word answer)

Her: "So, what do you do?"

Me: "blah blah blah ..... blah" (funny, detailed, yet not boringly long description with subtle jokes that she doesn't get)

Her: "Oh"

Me: "What kind of movies do you like?"

Her: (lists off movies that I hate)

Her: "What kind of movies do you like?"

Me: (lists off movies she has never heard of)

Me: (make a subtle joke that she doesn't get)

Her: "What kind of music do you listen to?"

Me: "Dance, trance, techno, classical, jazz, What do you listen to?"

Her: "Rock and Pop"

Me: (make a subtle joke that she doesn't get)

Me: "What kind of food do you like?"

Her: "Nothing in particular, what about you?"

Me: "I like to try new, different and exciting foods from around the world"

Me: (make a subtle joke that she doesn't even notice)

Me: "So, what do you do for fun?"

Her: "Umm, hang with my friends, watch "Friends", nothing much"

Me: "In the summer I play a lot of golf and in the winter I like to ski"

Me: (make a subtle joke that she finally gets but its not one of my good ones)

Her: "So did you like your meal?"

Me: "Yes, it was fine, how a bout you?"

Her: "Yup, it was good?"

The bill comes, she offers to pay half but I insist on paying the whole thing. I say that if she really wants to pay that badly then she can pay the next time we go somewhere.

I drive her back to her place.

(At this point I'm starting to feel like there is no point in seeing her again but inside me there is this little feeling like maybe she is just shy and when she gets to know me better she will open up more and be more fun and lively, and she does seem like a really nice person, and she's cute)

I drop her off but I don't hug or kiss her because I am having doubts about her. But I ask her if she would like ot go out again and she says "Yes!"

So I call her a few days later and it turns out she can't go out or doesn't want to go or something and basically it is just the end.

I feel sad and rejected for a few minutes before I realize it was a lucky escape.

Now, I know my problem is I am just not finding any girls who share any common interests with me and I guess this is important to me. That is why I went to an online dating site so I can find out all that stuff without having to go through the whole scenario above.

But I still always have this bad feeling in my mouth that she was the one that dumped me.

Hey, thanks for the compliments that's not why I put my pics up but its nice.

Well, I guess there is no 'serious' prob, I just thought maybe there was

something coming out of my nose or something like that and I just wasn't seeing it!!

Anyway they've got to like me for who I am, screw the pictures. I could tell them a thing or two about their pictures

And perhaps I'm crazy, but you really remind me of some celebrity, although I can't put my finger on who it is...

ya, well I can make myself look like a variety of celebs depending on my hairstyle, clothing, angle, expression, etc. Like Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Harrison Ford, Val Kilmer ... and I can look like the golfers Nick Faldo and Justin Leonard (when I wear a baseball hat) (which is never)

YES, I have one every night!!

Oh, Whoops I thought the topic was: "dream about sex"

I used that to think that golf was the hardest game in the world. Well, I have changed my mind!

Hey, is this a little better:

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or this:

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