Hi all I am new to this forum and have been having a very hard time (depressed and very heartbroken) ever since my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. She had been my first kiss and I was her first kiss, we had been dating for 3 months or so and the past 2 weeks we didn't do anything together because shes had to work or had sports on just about every evening. I was willing to wait but she said she was breaking up with me because she didn't want a relationship right now and didn't want to put me through this (her being so busy). I told her I would be willing to work it out and wait for her - I really have never felt the same way about anyone else the way I felt for her, I was her first real relationship and I can probably say the same about her (only dated few other girls in the past but never kissed them or loved them).
She has told me that its not me at all and that i'm an awesome guy, she is just not looking to be in a relationship right now and was just so excited when I first asked her out that she sort of got lost in the excitement. Obviously I feel a bit led on since she is the one that originally expressed interest in a relationship. I know shes not interested in other guys or is mad at me for anything so I can narrow it down to her just being so busy and confused.
I really want to date her again. When I've asked her if theres a chance in the future for us shes just given me an "I don't know" or "I don't know how I'll feel". The thing that really gets me is she broke up with me on MSN; I've talked to all of her friends about this and they know for almost a fact she did that because she would be too nervous/shy to do it face to face (I really wanted to talk to her in person about it because I would might have been able to change her mind).
We're both still in HS and have our whole lives ahead of us, I wasn't planning on going farther then kissing and doubt she was either so I don't know why shes so concerned about dating at this age, I felt really complete with her and could sense she felt the same way or by asking her friends. I'm really at a loss here and I'd appreciate it if anyone could give me any advice or tell about a similar experience. What is the best way to win her back over? Should I just continue to be her good friend and talk about everyday things (like we did today) and hope she misses the love or should I be more persistent? Or just give up on her altogether? She means so much to me...
TIA
