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Go No contact on her. You are not her consolation prize while she looks for a grand prize. You are not her emotional crutch. You are not her 'plan b'. You will not let her get the benefits of having you in her life so she can lessen her feelings of guilt and loneliness from leaving the relationship while she goes on dating other people. This is a recipe for disaster. She made her bed, she can lay in it. Let her feel the effects of losing you for real. She'll never get there if you stick around. But do no contact for YOU. Not as some tricky device to get her back. Missing you will be a side effect. Trust me... go NC long enough and you won't even want her back.