Neverenough88

So another amazing story from an close friend whom I just caught up on my situation because I remember him going through a rough patch with his now fiancé and wanted his advice. His fiancé dated 2 years. off for 3 months back on for 6months then off again for a full year he dated couple girls she dated a guy During the year off. Guys this is the girl leaving all three times and regretting it which is said to be rare but really isn't. And it was for another man that she was getting curious about. He finally said enough and said go with him hench the year apart now there getting married in April. During the year apart apparently she became single and he wasn't and he even told her off cause he was happy. When his relationship ended they got in touch and bamm. So gonna go see him today for better details of nc or what he did he told me just live your life and keep improving. I think I've learned patience may suck but if your a man you can look at time like a tool. Use it to fix your issues move on so you are ready when and if time comes. Hope is not a bad thing my friend never gave up just continued living his life and she chased him

Going through my situation has been brutal 4 years and about to move into our own house and she just left "loves me but doesn't feel in love" probably got boring hope she'll see new guy is just honeymoon phase and what I could provide is better. But this thread definitely made it easier to know that maybe there is hope and just got to push through the time and work on yourself easier said then done. But since these stories calm the mind I want everyone to know always keep hope in a life without hope lots of achievements would be lost. Just don't let it run your life.some stories and a good bump. Names changed to be nice 1. My best friend Ben known him for years with his girl for 6 years and he popped the big question it was perfect she said yes you wouldn't see it any other way. After the big question during planning found out she was pregnant with two twin girls. Still perfect. Me and my now ex went to the wedding and that's when I knew I wanted to marry my girl. But anyways kids were born married for year before girl at weld shop caught bens eye and he started telling his woman he was connecting with her and she understood him. He left her to pursue this 1 year marriage and two beautiful girls. Well I told him he was a ding bat and look what he had wish I had that as mine just left me few weeks prior. Well let's say me and his girl talked to each other same situations and she tried so hard but finally gave up to stressful. There back together now it was Month or two but it is still rough but there fighting for it and that gives me hope. 2. Friend from navy had kid with a woman and they were happy she left him saying the whole not in love thing. There were apart month or two and he laid it out on the line found out she was diagnosed with a little depression and got on medicine they are back together and now married and loving life so happy together. Both couples have been there for me and give me hope. Both are ltr and seemed amazing. Thing I learned is communication is key to holding it together and keeping it fresh unlike I did lol. So hold your head up push forward and kick life in the a.. And make yourself a prize best options. Hope to post my success here someday I love her won't give up just yet 2 months apart 1 month nc besides her mom N me being close she has no man and needs basic help it is possible