I broke up with her last Tuesday. I said some disrespectful things, regretted it, and tried to talk to her the next day but she ignored me. Then I tried again Friday night with an actual apology. Finally she responds Saturday afternoon along the lines of "I hate not having you, but you've crossed too many lines. I'll miss you." I didn't respond. She called later that night and I didn't answer or call back.
I'm not really sure what I'm doing right now. We were only together for about three months, but we saw each other almost every day and practically lived together. I miss her like crazy and would like her back, but I also think the time apart might be worthwhile for us.
I don't know. Should I have answered when she called? Should I hold out until she contacts again or reach out to her?
I don't like playing these kinds of games, but unfortunately in my experience they tend to work the majority of the time (in the sense that being less available increases their attraction).
