Yourhazeleyes

My first ex-boyfriend (7 months + on and off for another 6 months) tried to reconcile twice. The first time was ~6 months after our final break-up. The second attempt was ~1 year after his first attempt at reconciliation. Both times I didn't want to get back with him even though I still had feelings for him because too much damage had already been done. He initially was the dumper and I initially was the dumpee. Funny how the tables turn. My most recent ex-boyfriend (4.5 months) broke up with me 3 months ago. He hasn't tried to reconcile, but he contacted me recently. I'm crossing my fingers for this one. Not sure if any of those stories were "success" stories but dumpers do come back!