phattbeats

Hi There Matey, Seems like you have to decide what you want. To be honest 17 is a very young age and you should only just be finding your feet with relationships etc. The girl who you say you are in love with. Have you actually tried to sit her down and tell her how you feel. (don't get all mushey just simply tell her). The outlook i have on life that is if somthing is meant to be then it will be. I would suggest you have two options. 1. Try and fight for her and possibly risk looking her completely. 2. Allow things to take their course, play things cool and who knows you may get back together. Keep your options open. Hope everything works out. Regards Craig

Hi there all i'm new to the site and feel that by writing down my thoughts / feelings it may help. Well it's not a good story unfortunately, my girlfriend and i have now been together for 4 years all in all. I adore the girl but do not think that i would marry her so i feel she may not be (the one). However We have split from each other about 4/5 times before and always sorted things out. We have lived together before and share the same circle of friends. About 4 weeks ago she decided to end it. Now things have not been right for a while and i had suspected that she was involved with someone else. The breakup hurt like hell and i had some hard weeks. We have since said to each other that we shall remain friends and i see her on a regular basis. The problem for myself is that by remaining friends i feel affection for her everytime i see her. I dont want to loose her completely as i really do love the girl, but i'm not sure if the friends thing will work. I mean if she didn't care i can't understand why she would want to be friends. Do i play it cool!! Do i tell her how i feel!!. How knows! Anyway to make the situation worse we are going on hols together next month and she says she still wants to go as friends. So i think again, hmmm friends or something more. Some advice would help!! Thanx 8)