Hi just looking for abit of advice..bare in mind i didnt really know there was a no contact rule else i would of done it then..i wont go into to much detail about the relationship..what it is me and my seperated 8 months ago after been together for 15 years and married for 10 and have 3 amazing kids.. In the 8months i will say i have been needy cried alot and tried to fix my relationship and get my family back.. Things have been said on my behalf which i didnt rally mean was just out of anger hurt ect i have appologised from the bottom of my heart.. Im just confused we spoke at the beggining of our break up and he knows i would never ever do what i have again and she knows how much i love her and care for her and miss her the love i have for her has been the same since i first met her... Is it to late for me to carry on doing the no contact after 8 months ?? I know we have kids but i live with my mum so can go through my mum as she still has contact with my family even though we have broke up.. Any advice would be great im kind of lost.. Another thing is when i phoned my kids i heard in the background ask your dad take you get your hair when you go up..but the day after she pgoned me asking the same thing why would she do that ??
