tynotalone

Thank you to all the contributors to this thread! I read themall after my breakup last year, and learned a lot in the process. I am happy to say that after a two months breakup, I have been back with my "ex" for almost 9 months now. I do think we are stronger than ever, while collectively moving forward in building a stronger foundation and opening more lines of communication My advice: Read the hope, but do not dwell within it. Some relationships are not meant to be, and that is ok. Accepting this allowed me to come to terms with a lot of emotions and that release, gave way to a much more positive lifestyle. Remember your old relationship can be forgiven, but not necessarily forgotten. Anything from this point forward would hopefully spring a new, healthier relationship with your ex, but to do this, you have to accept the end. Do you. There is no shame in counseling. Create a new routine, preferably different than the one you had with your ex. Do things that lead to great conversations - those might come in handy. Hit the gym - or find a healthy balance to life. Endorphins are wonderful things. Also, true love finds a way - as cheesy as that sounds, I believe it to be true. And for the naysayers, if it ain't true love, statistically, you will love again. Maybe differently, but there are millions of other people out there. Thousands you will be attracted and compatible with. Best of luck - and just to contribute some more stories! My brother and his fiance separated for two weeks, but reconciled and have been together for 6 years. They are getting married this year! My best friend and her wife (same-sex couple) separated for about three days, but reconciled and have been together for nearly 8 years! My boss and his gf separated after 4 years together, were apart for 5 months, and have just recently moved in back together about three months ago- he seems really happy!