Alchemy

I'm a consultant engineer..... I guess what you were hinting at was, was I rich? Comfortable lets say that!!

planb. Thanks for that. The thing is she already has an 8 year old child, and she shows no desire to have more. Marriage? She also shows no need for that..... BUT she wants to live with me (i think), and so far i have shown no real enthusiasm to do this. However we have for reasons of business been away from each other for over a month.... i feel i would like nothing better right now to live with her, but that might wear off. We will be back together in a few days again - we'll see!!!

sasha505, dont worry about it. I was married for 14 years to someone 20 years younger. OK so we are now divorced, but that happens anyway! Love cuts through this age thing. By the way i'm now in a relationship with someone 32 years my junior.... no i'm not a purv.... just young in heart and mind. Good luck.

Swiss chic, thanks for your concern. I know what your saying.

There's a 32 year age gap in my relationship...!!!! yes 32 years.. I'm 60 and my girlfriend is 28. Of course i have no illusions about how long it will last... (its been 18 months so far) but why should that matter.... its good while it lasts. And i think that's the key here. We shouldn't try to see too far into the future.

I'm a 60 year old male (don't laugh!), but in all honesty don't feel it, and often told i don't look it either.... the thing is i have been in a relationship with a 28 year old girl for 18 months.... and it seems to work!!! It seems more of a problem for me.... she does says "who cares - its just a number". Anyone else out there with a similar situation?