honestly I did this , I tried to get her back at first but then left her one long message agreeing with her about everything that was wrong with us, wished her happiness and an amazing life, destroyed the 30 day thing because honestly thats nothing, ive been with her for 7 years and it was hard as but then before i know it , it was 5 months, she iniated contact , i decide to see what was going on and she had been going on dates but finally decided to date a nice guy and they've been together for 2 months going onto 3 now.....so like i said it wasn't the no contact rule i was following i just gave up because i felt like she was making the fight to get her back to hard and i just needed to respect her decision, i just want to say..if some of you guys are expecting them to contact back it could happen the opposite way she could start seeing someone else, females usually have a few guys lined up on the wing to replace you so its much easier for them to cope with the ...i wonder where he is when captain rescue is there comforting her.
