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My gf split up with me after 1 1/2 year of relationship. Last half year we began arguing more every day, because of we are both pig-headed and also I became too jealous bc she wanted to have a friendship with a guy she got involved with before our relationship. She told me she couldn't stand more, that she loved me but she was fed up of arguing with me. I begged only in that moment, the next 3 days we had LC (I wrote and she took 5 hours to answer), and the 4th I went NC, so far. She didn't wrote to me and after 2 weeks I decided to block her from WhatsApp, Twitter,... (It hurted me a lot). These months are being the hardest of my life. This forum is a fresh air window, hopeful. I swear if we get back together one day (fingers crossed!), I will tell you how, just to carry on giving hope. It's incredible that this thread has almost 2,000 posts, 2,000 "never give up". I have the slash always open on my navigator, and when I get sad I read some stories and I promise they make me happier! Thanks to all of you. I also have a few stories to share: 1.- My uncle and aunt broke up after 2 years dating. They didn't talk to each other whatsoever. After a time, they started to go out with common friends, and after 1 1/2 year of breaking up they worked it out. Nowadays they have been married for 12 years and have a 6 years old kid (my cousin, sure). 2.- A close friend (girl) broke up with his bf and told him she didn't love him. They kept in touch after that. She went out with other guys and her ex asked her to come back with him every 1/2 weeks, and she refused, over and over. I don't know exactly how but after 6 months of the breakup they came back. 3.- A couple of classmates at high school had been together for 2-3 years. They split up and the boy even got involved with other girl. They finally got back and are still together. As I have seen (I want your opinion), most couples which have been together quite a lot of time (let's say 1 year, I mean, not only a couple of months to see if it works) got back together, as long as the dumper keeps feeling to his/her ex. Or even, the dumper comes back but the dumpee has moved on. I hope every minute she calls me or texts me (SMS, e-mail), to tell me she wants to work it out. I know (or hope so) that day will arrive, but meanwhile this is my bespoke torture chamber, and I keep counting "How many seconds in eternity?". PS.: Sorry for the 100%-sure mistakes in writing.