N3crontyr

A friend of mine just got back together with his ex, they were apart for 2 years. But they were best friends before the relationship had ended, they didn't stop being friends. They kept on talking for the entire 2 years. My friend suddenly started to hang out with other girls and his ex seemed to react to this. So you see, sometimes even when you stay best of friends something can happen Greetings N3crontyr

Hello, I'm back, I've got another success story. For the older people, one of my father's friends is getting married to her ex-husband after being divorced for 7 years and still remaining friends. They got back together after those 7 years and have been in a relationship for 3 years now. But now they are getting married. I guess it's a pretty convincing story that if you genuinely care and love eachother, you will find your way back eventually. I just hope that one day my love will find her way back to me, I've made mistakes but i'm willing to change and put in effort. -N3crontyr

Ok, this is my first post. I'll share some stories 1: My mom broke up with my stepdad after she found out he was talking to his first ex-wife, so my mother threw out his stuff there was lot's of shouting and overall it was a bad break-up. Can't go in full detail but they were apart for over a year, after that my stepdad moved into his ex-wife's house, but never really liked her in the first place, they fought a lot. He started contacting my mother again and started begging her, she still loved him and took him back. They've been happy for over a few years now, they do fight sometimes, but it's mostly a happy relationship. (they never did NC though) 2: my stephbrother broke up with his girlfriend after a year of dating, I guess he was tired of her or something, never really asked him why. They were broken up for a year also and suddenly they got back together, don't ask me how... But they've been together for a year again and my stepbrother seems happy. As he doesn't come home in the weekends and just spends his time at her place. 3: my other stepbrother dated a girl in high school for a few years, they broke up a few times and always ended up together again. However this didn't end well as she became a (not even joking), she even became famous in her village for doing exactly that and also in the surrounding area. She even tried to seduce a friend of mine who blew her off. 4: my first "ex" girlfriend (we were twelve and not really in love) had a boyfriend for a year, she broke up with him and went to another guy they had a relationship for 2 years. They broke up with lot's of drama anyways a few months after that break-up I went on facebook to she that they got back together (her and the first guy). They've been together for a few years now, she looks very happy, but I don't talk to her anymore, so I wouldn't know except for what I see and what I heard from friends. 5: my father and stepmother always fight and "break up", it usually lasts a few hours before they talk it out and get back together, one time it took a week it's like a once in a half year thing. However they are happy most of the times, the discussions are mostly dumb at best. they're both 50 but they fight like little kids about stupid things. The problem is my father has turned into a no-bull kinda guy, and she's always the one suggesting breaking up, bad combo if you ask me, but still they're happy. 6: A friend of mine dated another friend of mine let's call them J and R, anyways J and R had been in a relationship for over 3 years but they were young and too distracted so it was always something peculiar about the two, you never noticed they were even together, they kissed only once that we saw. In the end they grew apart and just met at school told eachother there was nothing there, only friendship. It was never something intimate to begin with, only later did we find out why it was like that. Even J who ended up asking R out again after 2 years apart only found out when he asked her out. Well she wanted to become a he and she said: "I really want to be with you but I can't do it like this, while I'm a girl." J being a straight guy said he couldn't be with a man and they ended on good terms, are still good friends. So they did have a chance to get back together, but for obvious reasons that was not possible. 7: my best friend had the chance to get back together with a girl who broke up with him. But she lives all the way in Australia and he decided that maybe it wasn't such a good idea in the first place (he and I are from Europe). The chemistry however is still there every time they skype it's like a flood of sexual stuff, with her declaring that she really wants him back, my friend mostly ignores her though, because he knows what happens when he talks to her. Were together for a year and have been apart for several years. My best friend is always in doubt mode, I could bring them back together if I wanted but I don't know if it's a good thing for both of them. 8: another friend of mine got his girlfriend back after a few months, but i don't know anything more about that situation tbh. And now to break our spirit a little, not succesful stories (yeaaaaay!!!): My best friend (same guy) was together with a girl for 3 years when he was very young, they broke up he waited on her for 8 years and guess what? all for nothing, but yeah they were young so... A part of him is still waiting, the way he talks about her, he's not a big believer in destiny, but when I ask him about the girl he mostly answers in one word followed by silence: "time..." My mother wanted to come back to my dad after the divorce, he simply refused after hateful contact for 6 months. Because she kinda took all his money, his kids and almost drove him to suicide. A guy i knew was dumped by his girlfriend, for being too clingy. he didn't understand he sent her letters, messages and called her, she simply blocked him stating "If he had just kept his mouth shut for a month or so I would've considered being friends." He stayed depressed for 10 months and everybody avoided the poor guy until he contacted me and I helped him move on. His ex is a friend of mine and she's the best friend of my current ex girlfriend (the one who got away and the one I want back), the problem is she doesn't experience love, she doesn't know what it feels like to be in love. Leading to many heartbroken people along the way. I kinda made him hate her, and made him see that she was pure evil (I know I shouldn't have) my first ex girlfriend wanted me back 2 years after dumping me at age 12, she sent two of her friends to get mare. So I was brought before her and she simply asked "Hey S, I know i hurt you and such but do you want to try again" I simply told her she could go herself (childish I know but i had my reasons) Now my current ex, we were together for 2 years and a few months, first year was really good her parents were the vonly obstacle. Second year was LDR lot's of frustration from my side and lot's of tears from her's (not because of me but because we barely saw eachother), we only had time in the weekends, but oftentimes i'd make her "cry out of happiness" so she said. Last months of the 2nd year were filled with relative happiness, didn't see her much though lot's of work (I put in effort to see her). Last few months, she got popular, is in a circle (university thing), still frustrations from my side, she promised the LDR would improve. Said university was more important than me, didn't appreciate the effort i put into it, said she put in more effort because she made time in her schedule to see me,. I got angry because i had waited a year for this and she didn't appreciate what I had done the last year, bad communication. She made up excuses not to see me, got even more angry, other best friend told me to be a man. I broke her heart in a text. I was a jerk, total jerk. She came back I felt guilty, wanted to talk about what happened she dumped me after 2 weeks of back together. She said she wants to be friends, ignores me in real life, is neutral via text and says "there's a possibility of us working out in the future, but it won't be in the near future", she says she'd been unhappy for some time but was blinded by love and didn't tell me. I really loved her, still do. And now I've been trying to figure out everything that went wrong for 2-3 months. I do want her back, but she knows this. In a month she'll explain why she was unhappy on our first get together after the break-up. She however stated that she doesn't see it working out for now, so i don't think we'll get back together any time soon. Unless that's code for something. Anyways i hope these stories give people hope. Never give up hope, these are by far not all stories have heard of people getting back together. But the last stories serve as a reminder that it doesn't always happen. Sometimes you have to let go and restart later, sometimes there weren't any real problems to begin with so there's nothing to solve and other times you have to find something else. Sorry for any spelling mistakes, English isn't my first language -N3crontyr