Just 5 months ago I reunited with a man I loved 14 years ago. He and I have both gone through long marriages. He was devastated by his divorce, called me out of the blue after being divorced a year. We kept contact a few times over the years but gradually lost it. It was not until then he knew I was free as well.We immediatey resumed our intimacy but he was very clear that he was not ready for commitment.I was okay with that. I know it takes time and we used to be so close.Being with him was like coming home!In the last 2 months he has moved home, which is where I live. He hated it where he lived as he was mostly alone.Now he is here,he has close family and very close friends that have reentered his life and taken my place.He is very stressed as he is starting a new business.He now says he feels I have begun to get too close and now with all his stress we cannot see each other as much anymore, and we can have no intimacy anymore.I have explained to him that our situation was ok with me because I know he needs time, but he just keeps pulling farther away. Now we are not talking as we did everyday.I believe it is very close to over. Please...any advise to how to get him to continue and take this relationship as it goes. I was willing to go slow. He says he has just now given up on his marriage and cannot commit but that is not what I have asked for, just time is all I wanted.Why does he insist I have to have more when I try to tell him I don't.
