crazydriver

i think u should start off by asking her go to lunch..see how things go during lunch...if things feel right and she is responding to you in a good way, then u should ask her to a movie...but if lunch didn't go as u had hoped...then u should just stay friends with her. Make sure that u don't get stuck on one girl, if lunch turns out to be a bad one, then u should just not concentrate on her as much...there are plenty of girls out there and if u get stuck with this one then u might lose your chance with a lot of other great girls out there...so just go with lunch first then use your best judgement by the way she reacts and responds to you during lunch....after that....u make your move.... good luck

i just want to vent about my situation. If u guys have been following up with my story, then u guys should know what's going on, if not, check out my other post "how about a second try". Well, i haven't tell that girl yet but...i am about to tell her to consider giving things another try sometime this week...Well, since Valentine's day, is coming up, do u think i should even ask her to go do something...well..i really want to spend this valentine's day with her, but there is this guy that i think is trying to get at her...but she told me that they are just friends...i don't know if i should believe her....here is why i kind of don't believe her.....i think they might be putting up an act in front of me....here is why... first of all, they hang out, and they go to clubs and stuff...they go out and i can never go because i am only 20 and she is 22 and he is 23... second...we have class together, but they barely talk and she doesn't sit next to him, but she sits next to me... third...she doesn't mention anything about him in front of me...even if they go hang out and i will ask her who she's going to clubing with and she will never mention that he will be there too... fourth, when i am around them, i don't feel anything that's going on with them two... so, if they hang out and go clubing all the time but then she is still hangout with me and stuff....i think she might be putting up an act in front of me so that i don't know what's going on and keep me as a friend, but they are secretly going out.....WHAT do u guys think!!!!

if u think she shows interest in you, you should just try to start up a conversation with her. such as "how was your weekend, or ask her "what are you plans for this weekend?" if you feel that there is a good vibe coming from her, then go ahead and ask her for her number. if u get her number, u know u r in the game, but if not, then u know the rest.....just keep in mind that when u hesitate, u might lose your chance with her....make it quick and simple...

i was dating this girl for about 2 months. Initially i didn't feel that strongly about her, but then my feeling for her grew. After we went out for 2 months, we had the talk about how we feel about each other. She said that i didn't open up to her and that things won't work out that way. Becuase she didn't open up to me, i was having a hard time opening up to her. So now that we are friends and we have opened up to each other and that we felt more comfortable about each other. i was just wondering if i should suggest the idea of giving things another try becuase i really want to know if it was really communication problem or it was simply no connection between us.