stewwwart

This past week my gf broke things off between us and for the past couple of weeks i could feel the axe coming down. Things got to the point where everything i said or did was held under a microscope. What was bothering her, for how long i do not know, but at least for the last month was the fact that i wouldn't pay attention or would forget things that we'd talk about and she would get frustrated having to repeat herself. I'm with her on this, because i'd be the same way somewhat. I believe that her frustration began some time ago and just got to the point of, again, everything i said or did was held under a microscope. I asked one of my friends about this and after a long talk decided that this could be some type of add. Because that i had talked about this with one of our friends it had turned into the last straw that led to the break-up because early in the relationship i would confide in one of our other friends about things between us and that nearly broke us up then. But this time i thought it was a lost cause because for the last couple of weeks i felt the "axe" and was getting the cold shoulder so i saw it coming and couldn't stop it! A little bit about my gf, she can be stubborn, head strong controlling and wants things her way. On the other side of the coin, she's intelligent, whitty, fun and the life of the party. Maybe because of the fact that i'd have a hard time paying attention to her she felt that i couldn't keep up with her which leads this to the next part of me thinking there is someone else that she has in mind. This other person is a friend of ours that i used to work with and she works with now, ( it's a resturant ), and i believe that she has had him in the back of her mind for some time. Just a feeling that i would get from things she would say or the fact that she looked at him in a certian way. Now, here comes the kicker, last week everyone found out that this friend and his gf were pretty close to breaking up. So, now i feel like i have to stand here and watch this thing unfold in front of my eyes and feel like there's nothing that i can do about it. I know that she likes this guy because who wouldn't, he's good looking, funny, in great shape and a nice guy. My question is how do i even begin thinking about what to do to get her back when what has happened between us and that she now see an open window of opportunity with this guy? I love this girl and want her back, but how?