Last November, I was about 2 months away from my wedding date, when my boyfriend called and cancelled the wedding. He was working on the road so I was left to cancel everything. We had been together for about 4 years and we were having a rough patch. Harder still because he was away.
I was so sad, depressed and in a state of shock. It was so intense for 2 months while he flew back home to take care of his affairs. I put the house up for sale. Luckily it sold quick. During 8 weeks it took to get the house sold, he left for New York to start a new job. And left me with all the details involved with selling a house.
It was awful. And I'm still mad.
How do I move past the anger?
And under the anger is hurt.
Then under that is trust.
Are there steps that I can take to actively move on and heal?
I've since learned about his affairs and lies. I've cut off contact with him. But I still want to make peace with him.
Will I be able to gain anything from that?
