Hopingformore

I am new to this site and this thread has helped me with what I am currently going through. I will post my story later in a new thread but wanted to share this story. Ex's can come back even years later. My story ...I was divorced over ten years ago. My ex husband cheated on me with a woman and wanted a divorce. I begged him to reconsider due to our small children. I did not want the divorce at all and wanted to work on our relationship but he chose her over me. He gave me money to move out. Within the year of our divorce he married her. She moved into my new home and I was replaced. They were married for ten years and I am not sure what happened but she eventually left him and they were divorced. Last year my ex husband asked me to meet him for drinks to discuss our children. I met him and he really wanted to discuss us getting back. He apologized for everything, saying how he made such a mistake and that all these years he really loved me and always thought about me. Of course it was too late. But even after all of the years he made contact and wanted to reconcile. My girlfriend's story. She was with him for four years and he broke up with her. She was devastated. She begged him to reconsider....sent him letters and poems. Called him, slept with him but he just wanted to date other women. She eventually moved on and after five months he has begged her to come back. He has now attempted to get back with her for over a year. She was positive he would never come back to her. I hope these two stories give people some hope that you really never know what can happen.