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Sex is not just intercourse. It is the joining of too people. If there isn't strong feelings the make a person want to please another the woman usually isn't going to have an orgasm.
Jaiva
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Speaking from personal experience... It SUCKS! Actually, what's worse is to not be able to please him either. I felt useless and stupid. I had a serious complex for quite some time, I thought something was wrong with me, and I was constantly worried that he'd get fed up and go looking elsewhere for satisfaction.
But I learned that it takes time and patience.
I agree but with time and conversation about what makes her feel good, everything will work out.
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It's totally normal, I think your bf said this because he probably did the same or even 'worse' when he masturbated first.
It's just the kinda thing you'd never tell, but you blurt out being drunk
Just laugh about it, I'd say. Your a completely normal girl!
It is perfectly normal to explore your body as you are growing up. I think it was something wrong with you bf for him to think you were weird.
Make sure you don't mix meds and alcohol again so you wont tell all of your business to any other unworthy person.
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She was arroused but trust me... when she does orgasm you'll be able to tell. THere's no way of hiding it. Legs start trembleing and if you're inside her (with ur fingers or w/e) you can feel her vagina contracting, and you'll feel or see a sudden rush and then a calm. Breathing is just the prelude.
Yes, you'll feel the uncontrollable rhythmic vibrations and then you'll know that she had an orgasm. Increased breathing is just a sign that she's on the right track.
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Tip: Find yourself a gal that doesn't orgasm easily. Long-haulers in the sack are fun!! MY ex-gf would always pop-off before I did. Trust me, it's fun for a while, but gets boring fast.
I disagree with BCBoy81. Find a girl who you have strong feelings for. Women can have multiple orgasms and she'll love you extra because you can make have them. Most men can't last long enough for a woman to have one orgasm and you'll be able to make her have many whether she orgasms easy or not. But yes, it doesn't get boring, but only if you aren't doing it right.
Hope I helped!
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I think you should inform her so she's prepared. It's nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about and I doubt she will have any problem with it.
I agree. Tell her about it before she sees it then she won't freak out over it because she'll already know what it is instead of her seeing it and wondering if you have something.
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If she is a virgin and has never orgasmed, it might be that she doesn't know herself.
I agree. Maybe she doesn't know what an orgasm feels like. But to me it sounds like she did have an orgasm and just doesn't know what to call it. The uncontrollable rhythmic moving was a sign of her reaching her peak.
About the desensitizing. I don't actually believe that happens. Maybe she didn't like it in the first place and now she's tired of you doing it. Ask her what she likes and what feels good to her and then go from there. Relationships are about team work and communication.
Hope I helped!
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You must be totally honest with her and let her know that she had an unpleasant odor which got u out of the mood to continue, she needs to know that her hygiene was the cause, not because u cant perform well...
AND...when u do it again...to make sure that u wont be facing that...shower with her, and u wash that area urself. Use body gels that has a delicious fruity smell to it, and dont just wash the area once...do it more than once...and if u "trim" her area down there...thas sexy and a turn on too..and gets that hair off that may be holdin in the stinch....im not being mean..just talkin to u as if u were my brother...k?
I agree. Tell her that she smelled. That's the best way to handle that situation.
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Nasty...if im that in love then they should wait till im off ya know?
I totally agree and we're not going to talk about the odor.
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Talking on the phone just might not be her thing.
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Its a feeling that you'll have to just get used to. That's all I can say about that.
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I believe that you aren't ready for sex since you are so uneducated. Sex is not something you just do. Sex is meant for responsible adults who can handle the consequences of sex.
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That article is crazy. How can someone tell married people how they can show their affection for someone as long as they are in their own home.
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You aren't overreacting. It is good that you realized this. I think he is into guys as well as girls. Ask him about it. Tell him this is something you need to talk about because you are worried about the relationship. Hope I helped.
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If it happened than she had a few issues.
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i think its completely exaggerated.
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I agree. I believe that's stretched truth or just a plain ol' lie. But I was 15 with a 19-year-old.
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I agree but then again I disagree. Women go out and try to find men too. Yes, women are selective but that's because they have learned from others or their own experiences that men can be dogs because they as you said want to spread their genes with any woman possible.
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[i think if you are not aware of what makes you pregnant, and what you call that "white stuff" (semen) you ought to refrain from sexual activities. Sex requires one to be responsible about their bodies and aware...so read a book or inform yourself first.
I totally agree. You need to do some research before you try to take part in any other sexual activities. How old are you?
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I think RayKay covered it all. But make sure you ask her what pleases her. You can't just give multiple O's its something that happens with practice and knowing what pleases her.
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Don't worry about your penis size you still have time to grow. And if the girl really likes your she'll be excited about you and how you work what you have. Hope I helped.
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im sorry but i think anal is disgusting!!i would never NEVER let my bf do that to me!!
I agree I'm no fan of something going up my anus. That's where sh!t exits. But one thing I do know is that the hole will go back to its normal size eventually.
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Some women don't like having all the attention on the clit; every woman is different. Ask her what pleases her and try out new things.
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It would probably hurt him since you lead him to believe he was pleasing you but would you want to marry someone who couldn't please you? The best thing to do would be to sit down and talk about what pleases you. You all should experiment, while having sex tell him what pleases you and what you don't particularly care for. Hope I helped.
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I don't get off by masturbating. I don't find pleasure it. I also don't find pleasure in being fingered.
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I agree. But I don't think there is room for a friendship in that relationship. All the people want to do is bone. I wouldn't do it because women can get to emotionally attached to a person, especially when they've given them the goods.
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