the1caramel69

thank you very much for the new post edexter73...

no i have'nt, Im originally from VA I just moved to NJ in Dec 2003, I dont work, Im a full time mommy so I'm always at home with 2 kids, I dont have time to cheat!! And I wouldnt if I could, never cheated on my husband, I left him because he cheated, I dont think cheating is right no matter if its a kiss on the lips or sex, oral or penetration. You couldn't of been further from the truth. Next time read what the post is about before you post something back....

i can only hope that reading these message boards helps me be more secure about myself, in a way i wasnt before.

yeah i know my current beau wont cheat on me, but the feeling is there from the ex, and i shouldnt put them together cause in no way are they the same! i try to forget about the past but i have two kids with the ex, so when i look at them i think of the days when i was hurt... sometimes i think the saying "time heals all wounds" is sooooooooooooooooooo not true, because its been 3 years since ive been with my ex hubby and time evidently has not "healed my old wounds".

I've been in that boat 2 times last summer, I miscarried 2 times. I have two wonderful living children and plan on having more someday soon. Good Luck 2 you guys!!!

Right now I feel really low . I've been snooping online to see if my boyfriend of almost 2 years is cheating,I feel like a loser for even doing so... He caught me in the act and now I dont know if we can get through it. We've been arguing for 2 days now, and even almost broke up! Here's the thing, we did live together until his job moved him a hr and a half away and so he moved to his uncles house so he wouldnt have to commute, he was coming home 2 days during the week and on the wknds and leaving on monday morning, now i see him once during the week and the wknds.He's told me multiple times that he would never cheat on me and that he would break up with me beforehand. I want to trust him but my ex husband cheated on me multiple times before i left him, I want to stop thinking about the past relationship and move on with the one I am in now, but how can i when i dont know what to do, im afraid of loosing him because of my insecurites. Please reply to this thread....