I have a girlfriend that I have been together for almost 6 months and I have known her for almost a year. Im only 16 but I "like"(I have a thing about saying love) her a lot but I have problems with her being too friendly with other guys. In particular a guy thats on my football team. We both like her(in fact most of my friend like her) but she liked me and not the other guy. At first when we all hang out she flirted with everyone but after we started going out she has paid less attention to me and more attention to the other guy. Ever time we hang out together she flirts w/ the other guy and it pissed the hell out of me but I dosen't want to tell her because I like her too much. She told me that ppl say she flirts with other ppl. She also told me that she doesn't do it on perpous; "it just happens". She told me all this after I told her that I was experiancing jealousy. I never told her who im jealous of but she knows its the guy that she flirts with the most. This didn't bother me that much and I was trying to forget it until I cought her in a lie. One night when we were out on a date; her cell phone rang and I saw the name . It was the guy she flirts with(he had called her at least 4 ties cuz thats how many times I saw his name) and the guy she told me she doesn't talk to anymore since school is out. When I asked her who it was she made up a story about her friend calling her from camp. I asked her who the friend was and she game me a name that was not on her cell. The reason she didn't tell me the truth is bec. she knows im a jealous bf and because she thought that I didn;t see the name. Another thing is that if I ever get to the point to tell her that I love her it will mess everything up because I still have doubts about her and the guy. Please tell me what i need to do to fix this.
