lolabelle

Aww ive only just seen this. I just think were all in it together and we can benefit from each others experiences. Theres no room for negetivity, letting go happens naturally and in in a persons own time. Nobody knows whats around the corner and if these kinds of stories help people (as they have me) at the dark times then theres nothin wrong with that. There will come a time wherenyou dont need to read these threads. Try and be positive, its the only way. Hope youre well and feeling better xxx

Right ok, a few stories of rconciliation here. Alot of people seems so negetive on here about it, i feel that maybe yes, it is still more likley that you will remain broken up, or that it wont work the second time around BUT that doesnt change the fact that people do get back together all the time, its alot more common than some people might think and i have a few stories to prove it!! 1) a good friend of mine was with her boyfriend for a year and a half ish, as he was leaving for uni he just decided he wanted to be single, that was that he went away and the poor girl was devestated. She kept in touch with him, visited once or twice, saw him with other girls, went crazy....after 6 months she got her man back and they have been back together for 6 years now and are the strongest couple i know. 2) my best friend pretty nuch got really bored in her relationship. The guy she lived with was lovely and she cared for him alot but she had fallen out of love with him and had been unhappy in thenrelationship for quite some time. and another guy had caught her eye, she had kissed him and even gone on a date with him. So she left her boyfriend. Things never got off the ground with this other guy, as much as she tried, messaging ang chattin wen they saw each other but it juat never came together. She was OBSESSED with him. After a while....a good few months, the obsession faded she started to miss her ex bf, they were still in touch a little bit and on good terms but he never ever knew about the other guy. She eventually missed him so much she went back, after about 8 months. They have been back together a year now and have bought a house. They are both really happy and seem so in love. She loves him again! 3)a young man i used to work with was with his girlfriend about a year, he never really loved her that much and would always say she loved him.more than he loved her and he was even a bit annoyed by her, he was never really that happy with her. They broke up, not even for that long, he finally realised what he had and after a month or two they got back together, he fell in love with her and the change in him was amazing. They are now engaged. 4) another young man i used to work with. And they were quite young, they had been together about 2 years. He broke it off with her as again he didnt love her anymore. She was devestated and still tried to hang around him, waited outside his house, followed him on nights out, cried wen he was with other girls, the poor girl was distraught. I dont know the details of their reconciliation but i know they were broken up for a year or more and they are back and happy 5) my ex bfs sister and her boyfriend broke up after a year or 2, they broke up for 6 months and the girl had another relationship in this time, something happened im not sure what and they ended up back together..and they have been for 3 years. 6) another friend of mine broke up wirh her bf, and im not sure exactly how long, but they bumped into each other on a night out and ended up back together again. So there we go, thats just off the top off my head. In my own experience i have had one ex to want me back, i left him thought but because.of his behaviour. I nearly went back as i ended up missing him but i didnt go back. I have recently reconnected with an ex from 2 years ago. We never lost touch and remained friendly. It easmt a big relationship and we wernt in love...but he sseems to want something again now although i dont. My most recent ex was the only one i ever wanted back but he doesnt want that. Hes with someone else now and has no interest in a relationship with me. But sometimes i think ...well...you never know, bur im not hoping for anything we must remember life goes on. All i know is all of these relationships were completley hopeless at some point. People say an ex is an ex for a reason and must stay an ex because of this.... well they surely are an ex for a reason but noone can say those reasons cant be fixed, of course they can. Theres proof right there that people fall back in love after falling out. But everyones different and each situation is unique.. The best option is to move on with life the best you can, keep minimal contact and leave them to live their life. If its meant to be it will be but only time will tell