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I'm not sure if this is the best place to write this, but whatever. Well, it has been 7 months since our breakup and guess what? I'm completely fine! I stopped counting NC days because it's useless, and I even forgot the date when we broke up. I did NC multiple times in some periods like 3 weeks, month... but first real NC begun in January but I don't know how many months it lasted... maybe 3 months. I met with my ex on few occasions directly and indirectly and I was completely fine. All my emotions are under control. I still think about her few times per day, but it doesn't hurt anymore. When we broke up I was scared that she is going to forget everything about me but the funny thing is that when we met and talked... she told me some things from our past that I didn't remember! So yeah... they won't forget. So yes, it gets better with time. I learned a lot about myself during these painful months. I wouldn't believe nobody that it gets better when I was first day after breakup - but I think this is how it should be. Everybody needs to learn in their own time. I'm ready love someone else!

It takes some time. My breakup was 6 months ago and there are days when I feel sad, but it's getting better and better. I cried this week when I thought about our times together. But to be honest - it's million times better then it was just 2 months. You need to change your mindset to something like that you deserve better. Even if you think that you don't deserve better that is not true. I felt really huge guilt because I treated my ex poorly, but I managed to let go this guilt and I'm currently living the best period of my life

Every time you'll think about reaching out to him just remind yourself that it will hurt you. And it will hurt only you, not him. Nothing good will come from reaching out and since you can't control this situation it's not worth of your precious time

I disagree. For example (it's just my opinion, because it worked for me) it helped me to be disappointed. I reached out to my ex multiple times, and I was disappointed always. But it helped me, because when I met her somewhere I wasn't under stress and I was cool. But after first period of NC when I saw her (she didn't see me) I almost fell on my knees from fear and stress. Everybody is different. Somebody can go NC right after day 1, somebody needs to be disappointed and crushed multiple times. Everybody needs to find what it's good for him/her to move on

She is probably busy with life without you. Please, be busy, too. Don't let thoughts like this control you! I sometimes think about this too, but as there is no 100% answer, it doesn't make sense to think about it. Try to think about things which she loved about you and focus on these... Yeah, you're right. But it's weird, because I can see photos with her and I'm okay with that. But stupid piece of paper with her handwriting will remind tons of memories.

It is 6 weeks from last contact with her. I was doing really good and I started to enjoy my single life. I thought that my emotions are stable. But. I found some paperworks with her handwriting today and I broke down in tears. I keep going, because it gets better. I just feel stupid about what happened. Silly paper with her handwriting can create so big mess... Just venting, thanks for reading.

Day 30. I feel really terrible today because it's our anniversary today. I don't have urge to contact her but I feel guilty because I rejected her friendship - I told her she can contact me only if she changes her mind. I can't be her friend and NC is best option for me... I understand that NC has more positives then staying in contact... but I still have some flashbacks of guilt. She dumped me, she broke my hearth and then she wants to be friends? Hm. Selfish. Maybe I just need some empowering words why rejecting friendship was an good idea, please?