daytripper

I have a few stories to share! 1) I know a hs friend of mine who broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years. But she broke up with him due to his immaturity. After 1 - 2 years apart, they decided to get back together and both of them have grown a lot during their time apart. I'm not sure if they were in contact with each other other or not. Now they've been together for years and living together. 2) My friend's sister-in-law broke up with her boyfriend. He was her first boyfriend and they got together in her early 20's and my friend thinks that it was due to cold-feet that she broke up with him. They were only apart for a short period (1 - 2 months I believe) before they gave it another shot. Now they're married and have 2 kids. I really appreciate this thread and it has been helping me move on after my breakup. It has been a month since my bf broke up with me out of the blue by delivering the line "I can't say I love you anymore". We've been on LC with me being the initiator for all of the times. But I've been contacting him because I wanted to talk about the breakup, ie. where things went wrong, explaining why I did the things I did that could have driven him away. I came to the conclusion that it was due to our lack of communication that things ended up this way. I was always really emotional and insecure and that affected his own happiness, however, he never communicated to me that he felt the way he was feeling. This was also my first serious relationship (2 years) so the way I was was also due to inexperience and immaturity. I would've never wanted him to feel unhappy because I love him so much. We had a long conversation on the phone yesterday. I don't know what the future holds, but I'm going to continue moving forward with my life and becoming a better person. Thanks everyone for sharing their stories!