Pats75

There are no rules to all of it, everyone is an individual. I had the biggest heartbreak come back to me before but it was so late that I had 0 interest in anything other than "hanging out" occasionally. She came back around in the right fashion, had herself worked out, I could tell that if it was sooner it could've been successful but just too late and way after I healed. I a friend that is getting married in a month, he's back with his ex, after a year, they broke up due to her one day just kicking him out with no regard for his well being. She went and had fun for a year and came back wanting the full deal, he did it because "he was at the age and wanted to settle down" - example of shouldn't. Then there is another friend, she was a bit on the younger side, was with her bf for 2 years they moved in, the whole 9 yards, she freaked, started fights, finally she ended it. He reached out to her 6 months later, they talked started over, that was 5 years ago, and they are genuinely good and happy. Never know.