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Thx for your advice Mermayd , My lover and me had a long talk and I told him I cant go on , we both sick of the roller coaster feeling, He asked me not to stop until he knows after conseling because he is not certain & he wants to make sure he got the right choice , he said if he leaves not because of me , its just not work. He is so depressed , stick in a loveless marriage and he doesnt want to lose me . We both cried .we were unexpected fall in love and love so deeply. I understand it is very difficult for him to leave his marriage......Im not strong enough just walk away from this , I really love him very much ! what should I do? Dreamer

My lover is older than me 25 years old . Im have been involced in this relationship 2 years . Im divorced and he has an unhappy marriage .we are in a long distance relationship , It doesnt a matter even we are apart, we contact each other by emails and phone calls everyday , seeing each other every three months . I feel he is close to me . Our love is so true and we love each other more and more each day . We really enjoyed each other and we have plans for the future , unfortunetly his wife found out he is having an affair and she said she would forgive him and wants him back .she doesnt want to leave him . He rejected her but agreed to go counseling . Does it mean he wants to rebuild the marriage ? he called me and told me if I am the only one he wants to being with , he is ready to leave . I am so confused If he leave his marriage ,I am sure would cause him lots of problems . her wife will sue her half of his assets and more . I love him I dont want to see him in that situation .Should I leave or stay ? and It makes me so worry now if he would go back to his wife after the conseling . Please help ! Regards,