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SarahLancaster

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  1. He can't be very much committed to 'this' while he's re-evaluating his position on the relationship. I'm not trying to be argumentative, but I just think he's not as committed as you think he is. Time will tell, I suppose. Good luck.
  2. I agree with you that it's common to have ambivalent feelings and want to step back a bit to assess where a new relationship is going. However, I see several red flags in the OP's post that lead me to believe that there are other things going on. After 18 months of separation, he still seems to be hanging on to some feelings over his ex. I personally think he's using that as an excuse. He had plenty of time to process the break-up of a relationship where he was largely single anyway. He says he was really starting to enjoy being single when the OP came along and he started to feel 'overtaken.' I'm assuming that he means he was overwhelmed with his new status as a part of a couple. He doesn't seem fully committed to her. He says she "could be" the one and doesn't want to mess that up if she is, which tells me that he certainly doesn't think she definitely IS the one right now. It all screams of "I want to try being single for a while and see where it leads."
  3. I don't know. It sounds to me like he's longing for a bit of single life again. If I were you, I would cut down on the number of times you see him or even take an extended break from the relationship and see how that turns out. If he were truly in love with you and seeing a future with you, he wouldn't be having these feelings. Being hurt by his ex wife shouldn't be affecting how he sees you all of a sudden. There's something else going on.
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