Im telling you, the one and only thing you can do is to put her out of your life for now and ignore her. The more you push her right now the more you will drive her away. The only way she will ever want to be back with you is if you leave her alone and let her date this guy and see that the grass is not always greener. Dont call, dont email,nothing,,,ignore her. WHo knows, she may end up marrying this guy, but that doesnt matter because the only shot you have is to leave her alone and let her come back to you if she wants too. But my question is..Why do you want to be with her??? She cheated on you and then left you for another guy..are you kidding me??? Forget about her and move on but if you still want to be with her, leave her alone for now and pretend you dont give a darn what she does.. I know its hard after being in such a long relationship but its what you have to do. OH and also, dont, repeat dont be her friend...why would you want to listen to her talk about her new guy?? All it will do is torture you and drive you crazy and it is to hard to go from lovers to friends after a 4 year relationship. PUt her out of your life for now and if it was meant to be then she will be back. Its the only way.
