Is She Flirting or Just Being Friendly? Understanding the Signs

Flirting can be confusing. It is hard to tell whether someone really likes you, or are they just being friendly. It is natural to worry if someone likes you enough to be interested in a potential relationship. And it can be especially tricky to decipher a flirtatious message from someone of the opposite sex. But there are some tell-tale signs that she may be interested.

First and foremost, you should look for signs of eye contact. If her eyes linger on yours for an extended time, she may be sending you a signal. Women's eyes tend to have an inviting expression, and this can be indication her interest. Additionally, if you catch her glancing at you now and again, she may be checking you out and sending positive signals.

The next sign that she might be flirting is if she stands close to you in conversation. A woman who is attracted to you will naturally want to get as close as possible. She may even touch your arm or shoulder during the conversation. As physical contact is much more intimate than words, it is a clear sign that she is interested.

If she is flirting with you, she may also give you compliments or maybe even laugh at your jokes. Generally, if she thinks of you in a positive light, she will do whatever she can to make you feel that way. She will take pleasure in things that you do, such as buying drinks or making dinner reservations. Don’t be surprised if she wants to spend a lot of time with you, as that could be a sign she is interested.

It is also important to look at how she speaks with you. If she is speaking slowly and deliberately, it is likely that she is attempting to be flirty. In addition, her voice may become softer or higher pitched when she talks to you. These are signs that she may be subconsciously showing signs of attraction.

Finally, you can look at how she reacts to other people around her. Is she engaging with everyone easily and naturally? Or does her friendly behavior only occur when she is talking to you? Women often try and put on their best behavior when they are attracted to someone, so this could be a good indicator.

It may seem difficult to identify for sure whether or not she is flirting. But if you keep an eye out for these signs, you can figure out if she is interested in you. And who knows - you could have something special in the making.